This is a 17-year-old boy, now in his second year of high school, started smoking and drinking when he was a freshman in high school, and has changed six schools in a row over the past year. The last one and a half months do not want to go to school, every day at home to sleep and play with cell phones, family members persuade him to lose his temper, but also to not eat to threaten parents. Parents said that the family is the only child, usually spoiled, what to have. When I was young, quite smart and cute, but also pleasing to the eye, I did not see any bad habits, and now I feel more and more close to him, how can not control, watching him at home day after day to sleep, from the college entrance exams day after day, we are anxious, what should we do ah? Expert comment: This is definitely a child who has been “spoiled”. Nowadays, there are far more spoiled children than traumatized children. However, parents do not know that spoiled children also need to do psychological counseling to correct for a long time. When children are young, they always receive help from their parents, and the parents always do everything for their children until they leave home, go to high school, college, or even work. However, the problems become more and more frequent and the parents become more and more powerless. At this time, the children themselves will have a great sense of incompetence, because they really lack a lot of ability, and they will feel that the society is “rejecting” them. Nowadays, there are too many “problem children”, “problem parents”, “problem families”. Most of these problems come from “spoiling”, a seventeen-year-old teenager every day to parents “coax” to get up, “coax” to eat, “coax” to study. “coaxed” to study, is this normal? Is this normal? Will the leaders “coax” them to go to work when they work in the future? The earlier the problem is detected, the better, the later the treatment takes longer. This teenager in the two-year-long psychological counseling completed the second growth, the second college entrance examination to a dream university in Shanghai, before leaving for school to give his mother a deep embrace, told his mother that he can!