There are many parents who like to educate their children by beating them when they are disobedient. In fact, beating children can do a lot of harm to them, and beating is not a solution to the fundamental problem, but only makes them more naughty and disobedient. So, what harm will be done to children by beating them? A. Why do Chinese parents like to beat their children? There is a saying, “It is only right for the old man to beat his son”! This phrase graphically illustrates the parent-child relationship in Chinese families. As the head of the family, parents have the supreme authority, and children are private, I want to do whatever I want, I love to do whatever I want, so, beat the child well, as the other day in the street abuse of children in Dongguan woman said, “None of your business”! In addition, the child is still too young, the two sides of the “strength” gap is too large, even if they do not want to be beaten, but the limited ability to still get rid of the fate of beaten, this is also an indisputable fact! Second, why do mothers beat their children? Parents beat their children mainly because the children do not act according to their will. For example, if you don’t do your homework, don’t eat properly, don’t go to bed on time, the easiest and most effective way to educate your child is to beat him or her up! But there are also some inexplicable reasons, such as, I’m in a bad mood! Or, mommy and daddy had a fight today. Even, as the netizens say: look at you upset, just want to slap you! That’s all. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who have been in the business for thousands of years. The actual fact is, the eagle father and mother type of education, some times can really help children to become talented. But most of the time, randomly hitting children, is more harm than good! The proverb says: “often scolded not surprised, often beaten not afraid.” Children are often beaten and have been in the sand for a long time, they will be soft and hard, and it will become especially difficult to educate them later. Second, children under the parents’ stick education, easy to become obedient, lack of initiative in matters. Parents often scold their children, but also easy to make the child also become violent, he will be parents inflicted on their own pain, transferred to the weaker body. The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the following Take lessons from foreign parents In fact, many European and American countries have regulations to the point that it is illegal for parents to beat their children. But when the child is too naughty, how do we deal with it? Let’s take a lesson from foreign parents. The cold treatment method. When a child is unreasonably noisy, do not bother with him or leave him alone, so that the child can avoid the establishment of a conditioned reflex between his own noise and the adult to meet the requirements. The natural consequences approach. For children who like to touch things without causing major damage, parents can let him touch them so that he can directly experience the harm involved. Use an angry expression to tell the child that his behavior is wrong. Seeing an adult’s angry face, many children will stop their wrongdoing.