The birth of a baby with a clear cry in the delivery room brings joy to a family, but at the same time, the mother and father will be very nervous because they don’t know how to take good care of this lovely little life. Crying accompanies the growth and development of the baby. When we have the right care and guidance for the baby when he/she cries, the baby will grow up healthily; otherwise, the baby will be spoiled. When babies are not quite able to speak, crying is the main way for babies to communicate with us, and babies often cry to express their needs. A healthy baby’s cry is loud and melodious, while a sick baby’s cry is often high pitched, short, hoarse or weak. When you hear from the cry that the baby is sick, or use any method to comfort the baby is useless, can not find the reason for crying, be sure to see a doctor in time Oh! So what should we do when a healthy baby cries? 1, the baby was born to 6 months, more comfort in the mother to take care of newborns to two or three weeks old, it is basically from the baby’s cry to hear what the baby needs! When the baby cries because of hunger, pulling, hot, the mother can give the baby to feed, change diapers, increase or decrease the clothes. Babies tend to cry when they fall asleep and when they wake up from sleep. This is because the baby’s body feels uncomfortable when switching between the two states of sleep and wakefulness. While in the womb the baby feels safe and secure, after birth has been separated from the mother’s state of being, the baby will also experience discomfort as a result. Babies express and release discomfort by crying. Soon after birth a cycle is created: the baby feels uncomfortable – cries – and the parents come to comfort him. This is a natural and necessary process. Until the baby is 6 months old, when the baby cries the mother comes to comfort him. This gives the baby a sense of interpersonal security, which is very good for the baby’s psychological development. In this way, a good parent-child relationship can be established. It has been found that when the baby cries, the mother speaks to the baby, or puts her hand on the baby’s abdomen, or presses and holds his arms, about 70% of the baby will stop crying because of this comfort. 2, the baby 6 months later, began to adjust About 6 months, the baby has naturally learned to call parents by crying. At this time, parents should start to be vigilant, not to come to comfort the baby as soon as he cries. Babies cry when they feel uncomfortable as a form of self-soothing. If the parents come to comfort the baby as soon as he cries, it will make the baby gradually lose the ability of self-soothing and rely more and more on the outside world, which is very unfavorable to the physical and mental growth of the baby. If the baby 6 months old will still doze off or wake up crying, the mother can wait for the baby to cry for a while and then go to comfort, slowly stretching time, the baby slowly in the sleep, wake up between the two state transformation will not cry. In addition to hunger, poop and other physiological needs, the baby grows, but also because of other things and cry. For example, the baby needs more companionship from the mother; the baby wants to sit up to see more things around, but he or she does not know how to sit, and needs the help of parents; the baby is bored and wants to play with toys, etc. When these situations occur, the baby will cry with his or her hands. When these situations occur, babies will express themselves by crying. So, what should we do? Mothers should give their babies enough company, talk to them more and play with them, which will also help them grow and develop. Don’t let your baby cry a lot because there is nothing to do. 3.Set up and implement boundaries When the baby is 6 to 12 months old, it is necessary to set up and implement boundaries for the baby. For example, if the baby has to play or wants to be held by the mother when it is time to go to sleep, parents should not give the baby any reaction and let the baby cry until it stops. Slowly, the baby will stop doing this because he knows that it is useless to cry willy-nilly. During the baby 8 to 22 months, the baby will cry less and less, and become a healthy and happy baby. 4, do not spoil the baby Many crying, bad-tempered children are from a young age as long as the cry is satisfied, they are spoiled without any behavioral boundaries. Such children, growing up will be more and more difficult to discipline, it is easy to become a “little emperor”, the family should be centered on him, to kindergarten, it is difficult to get along with other children. At this point, it will be very difficult for parents to educate him and set boundaries for him. Spoiled children can skillfully use crying at the age of 1 to overcome parental opposition and achieve their goals. If this has already happened with your baby, it’s important to start making changes! Once a baby has been spoiled by his parents, his crying can be unsettling for the family. A couple, in order to stop their 11-month-old from crying at night, sometimes even had to drive their baby out for a drive twice between midnight and 6 am. There are very many parents and grandparents who are tormented by their babies’ capricious crying. Examples of spoiling babies abound, especially in this age of great material abundance and families revolving around one baby. For the sake of our baby’s future healthy development, we must restrain the baby’s bad behavior and respond to the baby’s capricious crying with gentle but firm patience. Believe in wisdom and you will have unexpected rewards!