Communication with children must master the following methods and skills: 1, must be to communicate with children as equals, must not be condescending, or even always do not understand that children have matured, grown up, there is a risk that children feel that there is no way to communicate with parents, communication, and even feel that parents can not understand themselves. 2, must be more tolerant, more patient, especially when the child already has a sense of independence, must 3, also use the skills to communicate and exchange with the child, effectively alleviate the problem of miscommunication, such as giving the child more opportunities to express, and at the same time give more affirmation to the child’s opinions and suggestions, encourage the child to have their own ideas, and at the same time when the child has some very good ideas, then we must encourage the child to be brave to do The child should not always give the child cold water.