Chapter married more than two months, but the unit colleagues did not see him after the wedding spring look, familiar male colleagues privately and repeatedly asked him what happened? It turned out to be the wedding night and his wife’s first time is not good, just inserted shortly after the involuntary ejaculation, so that the penis is weak, can not continue to live a married life. Later several times are so hastily, his wife complained, small chapter is more ashamed. In fact, the small chapter of the situation of many people will have, which is easy to occur during the newlyweds premature ejaculation phenomenon, especially the newlyweds in the first few days of married life, the results make both husband and wife anxious, very distressed, the wife even suspected that her husband in the sexual function of what problems. Newlyweds why easy premature ejaculation? The main reasons are the following three points: 1, the newlywed period of sexual stimulation “threshold” low: because of love, intimacy of the premarital stage, whether it is the brain layer of sexual activity “Command”, or sexual organs, are often in a high state of sexual excitement, which will inevitably result in ejaculation center is also in the middle of the sexual excitement, for the requirements of the sexual stimulation is lowered, that is, lowered the sexual stimulation of the “threshold”. At the same time, for a newly married man, the first time in the form of conjugal life in contact with the woman, this sexual stimulation is both sudden and very strong, ejaculation occurs faster is not surprising. 2, too much semen accumulation stimulation: unmarried men due to the reproductive organs to produce a certain amount of semen, to be discharged in the form of semen leakage. Newly married men, before the first sexual intercourse, the sexual organs have accumulated a considerable amount of semen, can produce a full form of stimulation, coinciding with the couple life, will be impatient to discharge prematurely. 3, the sexual function has not yet adapted to the newlywed state: here refers not to the sexual function problem, but refers to the sexual function to meet the form of married life this turning point, the initial stage may not be fully adapted to the nerve, endocrine activity of the links, not all straightened out, the beginning of the stage of the ejaculation will be premature phenomenon, and later gradually adapt to the habit, but also to return to the norm. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on a new marriage, and you’ll be able to do that. 1, let nature take its course Generally speaking, newlyweds, separated for a period of time, work pressure or physical fatigue, premature ejaculation occurs more than an illusion, is a one-off. Because most newly married men have little sexual experience, the various aspects of sexual life has not reached full coordination, the degree of proficiency is also low. But the night of the cave, but the spirit is in a state of high excitement, the sexual organs have accumulated a considerable amount of semen, encountered a strong sexual stimulation, naturally, will not wait to ejaculate. Male friends tell themselves at this time, premature ejaculation during marriage is a normal physiological phenomenon, is not a disease, whether the husband or wife, do not have to worry about this. Never think that this is caused by sexual dysfunction, so as not to increase the burden of thought, and then cause the real premature ejaculation. With the gradual adaptation of the couple’s life, the phenomenon of premature ejaculation will gradually disappear, generally do not have to treat. 2, seek medical treatment Through the introduction of the above, the general newlywed premature ejaculation will not be cured, but some men after a period of conjugal life, premature ejaculation phenomenon is still no improvement, then you need to consult a doctor in a timely manner. (1) Patient information: the treatment of premature ejaculation as a newlywed needs to dig up a lot of patient information, it is necessary for the doctor to make detailed inquiries, and find out the deepest thoughts of the patient through communication with the patient, so as to give the patient to do the guidance to solve the psychological problems, and then take the first step to overcome the premature ejaculation. (2) Various examinations: to do the examination to see if there is a physiological reason, primary premature ejaculation patients are due to the pentazocine re-nervous energy metabolic disorders (abnormal regulation) caused by the treatment of the main application of pentazocine reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), which is to improve the nervous energy of the drug, can prolong the ejaculation time. (3) Physical therapy: In addition to drug therapy, there are many physical methods to improve the symptoms of premature ejaculation, the current treatment of premature ejaculation methods are “stop-motion 2-step training method”, sexy concentration training, pelvic floor muscle exercise. In fact, know the newlyweds premature ejaculation is a normal phenomenon, a transitory adjustment will be good, once the hair of the newlyweds stage ejaculation faster, do not have to worry about this, otherwise mistakenly think that the sexual function of the problem, resulting in psychological and mental damage, it will really induce sexual dysfunction. Of course, really have a problem of male friends do not have difficulty in the face, as soon as possible to find a doctor to solve the problem in order to give you a better life.