Parents often ask in the background if there is something wrong with their babies who are always reluctant to look at people. Other parents come to see their babies because they don’t like to look at people’s faces. Through the examination there is no disease in the eyes and no damage to the brain. But the baby really only likes to look at the cards, left and right tracking are very good, but when people and he looks at each other, he avoids not to gaze. What is the reason for this? Is it really because of brain damage or vision development problems? This is because the parents train the baby’s vision with cards every day, so the baby’s preference for vision is shifted. Through guidance, parents know that they should stop showing cards to their babies, let them look at their parents’ faces more often, and often face-to-face and tease them, and after half a month or so these babies will be able to look at faces. This is because the infant receives early abnormal visual training and thus has an impact on the brain. There was an example of animal experiments can also be illustrated. When a kitten was placed in a visual environment with only vertical black and white stripes for a period of time, most of the nerve cells in its visual cortex responded only to the vertical black and white stripes, and did not respond to other shapes. This example shows that visual experience shapes the nerve cells in the cerebral cortex during the early development of the visual system. Visual experience can change the sensitivity of nerve cells in the visual cortex. If parents rarely gaze face-to-face with their baby during the first two or three months of life, it can affect the baby’s ability to gaze at faces. Therefore, within two or three months after birth, babies should first look at faces more often, and then they can look at black and white cards and picture cards with solid colors or play. It is very important for babies to look at the faces of their caregivers face to face and to communicate emotionally with adults. Overly anxious mothers can also affect babies and people looking at each other There is another condition that can affect babies and mothers looking at each other is anxious mothers. Some mothers say, “My baby doesn’t look at me, but will look at grandparents, just not at me.” From birth, babies don’t see eye to eye with their mothers. Babies are very sensitive and even if the mother is anxious inside but pretends not to be, the baby can sense it and just doesn’t look at the mother. Babies have an emotional connection with their mothers at a very young age, and the impact of face-to-face is very strong. Babies want to know their mothers, through facial expressions such as eyes, smiles, and body language. If the mother is very anxious or has no expressions, the baby is missing these and the impact on the baby’s growth and development is great. The mother is naturally very affectionate, gentle and kind to the baby, giving love to the baby through her voice, expressions and hugs, and these contacts are beneficial to the baby’s growth. If the mother is anxious, then the care of the baby will be defective in voice, expression, and hug. If the mother does not laugh, the baby will like to see other people who love to laugh and the baby will learn to laugh. If the baby has only the mother with her and the mother does not smile, the baby will not smile. It is very difficult to make up for such a defect in the future when the baby is very young and produces it. This will cause the baby to develop later, be more withdrawn and have more difficulty in interacting with people. The best education for your baby before 6 months of age is to make your baby laugh and smile. We want our babies to have a good start in life and to develop a good optimistic and cheerful personality from a young age. Good emotions are very important for the baby’s growth, and the baby will develop better if the mother understands the baby’s emotions well. If a mother talks to her baby more, hugs her baby more, and smiles more, her baby will be fine. If the mother is more depressed or sick, or has family problems, invariably the baby will know immediately, affecting the baby’s healthy development. How to use the black and white card correctly 1.In a soft light environment, the card is 10~30cm away from the baby, move slowly, not fast. 2.When using the card, cover your face and explain the content of the card to your baby, so that your baby will focus on the card. 3.After reading the card, you can make a face and tease your baby, and communicate with your baby more with words, eyes and body. Remember not to show the black and white cards to your baby too often.