The first time is to open the door to “sex” life, but also to enhance the emotions of partners. Many people are happy to have their first time, but it ends in failure. The first time a person fails to do so is normal? The first time you fail is a very common thing, the most important thing is to feel. From actual experience, not many men or women are technically successful in their first fap. For this reason, many sexologists agree that the most important thing for young people on their first try is how it feels, not how well the actual technique was done. In addition, first-time fapping failure is also related to inexperience with fondling. Most people fail the first time and then after 2 to 5 repeated attempts, they will have a successful sex life. So, even if you fail the first time, there is no need to be impatient or have any concerns, you can try again after a little rest or wait a day or two until both parties are emotionally settled before having sex again. To a certain extent, sex requires learning and growth, and the presentation of a perfect sex life requires both partners’ bodies to rub off on each other. So it’s normal for the first time to fail, so don’t expect the first time to be a success. To be able to succeed in the first snapping, you can try to do so: 1, to develop good psychological quality men and women first in-depth contact communication, there will inevitably be tension to the phenomenon, which is completely understandable, after all, want to have a perfect performance in the first time. The more obvious this psychological implication (pressure), the more prominent the symptoms of nervousness will be, often resulting in a leak before going in, thus ending in embarrassment. So, practicing good psychological quality is a prerequisite for the success of the first snapping. 2, learn about sex in advance, accurately grasp the location of male and female genital organs This is also important for the first snapping. In particular, there are three mouths below the female, the corresponding location order is: urethral opening, vaginal opening and anus, the location can never be reversed and get it wrong. In addition, before the man officially entered, the woman’s guidance is also very important, do not be shy and do not take the initiative to cooperate, resulting in the first snapping failure. 3, avoid too “violent” sexual behavior for men, the first time snapped, the mood is often more excited and anxious, the action will inevitably be more hasty, rough. The actual fact is that the male sexual desire comes quickly and strongly, and the long-accumulated sexual impulse, which can easily find a way out, wants to “conquer” the form of self-release, or to prove their sexual ability. In this case, there is not enough “foreplay” preparation and lubrication, often leading to women pain, and ultimately end in failure. If you try several nights in a row without success, you can seek the help of a urologist, a male doctor, an obstetrician and gynecologist, or a psychologist. References: [1] Kunpeng. Sexual health starts from the wedding night [J]. Health for All, 2009(1):1. [2] Song Weidong. Sexual secrets of the first night[J]. Popular health,2015(3): 114-115. [3] Zeng Xiaoliang. The first night; don’t expect too much success[J]. Family medicine: the second half of the month, 2003(2):2.