One is that the child will be self-denying, feeling that he or she is not good enough, always making mistakes, thus forming an inferiority complex, always obedient, timid and afraid to take the initiative to do things, afraid to make mistakes, afraid of being criticized and scolded. Another situation is that some children in the process of being beaten, gradually become more and more rebellious, disobedient, confrontation with the batterer, and even very emotional, impulsive and violent. So hitting a child is not a good educational method, it is better to communicate with the child in a verbal way and to interact with the child in a positive way. In the process of growing up, children will inevitably make mistakes and inevitably some behavior that we feel is inappropriate, so it is important to be more tolerant and understanding of children and give them the opportunity to make mistakes. A child who does not do anything will not make mistakes, but in fact the child will also lose more opportunities for development, which is a bigger mistake, so it is still necessary to use scientific methods to educate children, so that they can develop good qualities of thought and character from an early age, so that they can better enjoy their lives.