The failure to have sex on your wedding night or for the first time does not indicate “impotence”. A large sample of survey and treatment experience proves that only 7% of newlywed “impotent” men really have some disease or abnormality that affects erectile function, while the vast majority of “impotent grooms” are actually ” The majority of the “impotent grooms” are actually “pseudo-impotent”, just because of the lack of sexual experience, or do not have a good grasp of the timing of sexual intercourse. The reason for the failure of the newlywed sex life is multifaceted, such as tension, anxiety. For example, both men and women do not want to have children immediately, and have concerns, so the mind can not be highly concentrated, there are worries and affect the play, the quality of sex life is naturally affected. The first night when both men and women are more nervous, and the male is more anxious, not to ease the tension and atmosphere, but also not well lubricated, the penis forced into the vagina, not only women’s vagina will be very painful, even the male penis will also have pain, which can not be said to be more spoilers, lost the original intention of the pursuit of mutual pleasure. In this case, if you can’t finish sex on the same day, there is no need to rush, rest for a while and then make a proper “sprint”. It is necessary to strengthen the communication between the two sides during this time, do not blame each other, because sex is a matter of two people, there is no “bystander”. The two sides should use this time to familiarize themselves with each other’s bodies and learn about sexual life. The lack of proper understanding of the reproductive organs of both parties, the lack of knowledge of sex, the wrong position of sexual intercourse will also lead to failure. In addition, we should pay attention to eliminate the adverse factors before sex, such as travel and marriage is bound to have a great physical and energy consumption, the change of a new environment is not accustomed to the diet does not fit the mouth or alcohol, etc., are not conducive to men to give full play to the normal sexual function. If after a period of adjustment, you still can not successfully complete sexual intercourse, you should receive the necessary consultation and examination. In the specialist’s guidance, the reasonable use of some drugs, in a short period of time to quickly revive the “masculine”, to achieve immediate results, to achieve a zero breakthrough, which will enhance the man’s self-confidence, eliminate sexual anxiety are very beneficial.