A great family, a great parent, does not leave your children with 10 acres of land, 10 houses, 10 cars, 10 million dollars in savings, but teaches them by word and example 10 life temperaments. First, train your children to listen patiently Listening is really important! Many people today lack patience and cannot afford to listen to others’ explanations, always hoping that what they say is the most accurate and reasonable, but in fact, in many cases what they consider will have a lot of one-sidedness. Second, read very diligently. Children who do not have the habit of reading diligently will not have lasting development in the future! Diligent is to have the habit of reading, to learn to read at odd hours, to persist in reading when encountering various difficulties, fast is to have a faster reading speed, the ability to obtain new reading information, and the ability to exchange reading ideas with peers in a timely manner. Reading, first of all, is the reading of difficult texts, but also includes the reading of Internet information, but also includes the attention to a variety of real information around, etc. Third, the ability to communicate with anyone Without good communication skills it is impossible to penetrate into the real world, and many opportunities for personal development will be lost. It is in the implementation of home education, the communication between children and parents is also particularly important. Fourth, writing Without good writing skills it is difficult to seek ideal career opportunities in modern society. The ability to write is also a good way of expression and publicity. Fifth, you can solve your own life problems. Nowadays, many children who go to study in the United States are only children, so they have no life skills, they can’t cook and do laundry, they can’t change tires, they can’t change light bulbs, they can’t paint household furniture, which is not a sign of your nobility. The ability to face and solve problems independently is the survival ability that every person in modern society must have, and is also the basic ability that individuals must have to face life and career. Sixth, the development of children’s rigorous temperament rigorous character is the child’s future interaction with people, respect, people appreciate the most basic character. The real situation now is that there are fewer and fewer people who talk about rigor, care about rigor, and insist on rigor, but those who can always be rigorous are the proud ones of the times. Seventh, know how to respect each other, know how to self-criticism When I was very young, my grandmother told me: “Respect for others is respected by others”. The meaning is clear, only by respecting others, will be respected by others. Eighth, have the concept of environmental protection, to leave the next generation a good earth In fact, today many rich, powerful, powerful people in the satisfaction of personal comfort, often disregard and ignore the concept of “environmental protection”. For example, how much wood do you use to decorate a house, and will that bring disaster to the future of mankind? When configuring a home theater, music center, have you considered the decibels when playing will disturb the neighbors and bring noise pollution? When eating all kinds of food, especially when tasting wild food, you have thought about which food raw materials should be controlled and protected? Ninth, educate and train people around you Not only do you know how to study and read by yourself, but you will also drive and influence people around you to study together, which will create an ideal environment for your own continuous learning and deep learning, and learning will gradually be recognized by more people around you. Tenth, friendly contact with the outside world Good at accepting the outside world, good at accepting new things, good at discovering and learning new things and constantly accepting it, which is a very important ability in modern society, is also an important manifestation of social progress.