First, please don’t just feed your child food Every year in the Spring, there is news of babies being fed nuts by adults to choke to death, there are reports of toddlers being fed alcoholic beverages by adults leading to brain damage. Maybe you just want to see your child’s spicy face, or even simply want to give your child a taste of something you think is good. But, can you make sure that the food you give him is really suitable for your child? Please don’t just feed him, or at least get mom’s permission first, whether it’s candy, fruit, seafood or even just a dish with salt. Please don’t tell your child that “your mother doesn’t want you anymore” How can your child’s mother not want him? Maybe you are just a thoughtless joke, but this sentence is simply the tenth level of harm to children! Children are not able to distinguish between a joke and the truth. Such words will make the child’s psyche produce extreme insecurity, fear fear sad all kinds of negative emotions quickly occupy the child’s heart, and even angry resistance to the mother. If you are really my close friend or relative, please stop joking about your child. How much do you really hate my child? Third, please don’t ask your child whether he or she prefers dad or mom Usually remember being asked this question by countless people when we were kids. For babies, both dad and mom are the same, but this question from adults can leave them in confusion. The answer is the same, but the adults still do not relent. But to say casually whether they prefer dad or mom is an answer against their will. Watching him in a dilemma, is it really what you like? Fourth, please do not come up to pinch the child’s small hands and face Baby’s small face, small hands tender, chubby, who wants to see a pinch. However, if you really like him, it is better to resist the hand that reaches for them! If the baby’s face is often pinched, then it is easy to affect the development of the parotid glands, increasing the child’s saliva production. More seriously, because the hands of adults are covered with a variety of bacteria and viruses, and babies are usually used to eating hands, pathogenic bacteria can easily be brought into the body to cause illness. Five, please do not use the red envelope to tease ta call aunts and uncles Children are very small, but he also has dignity. Adults have known since ancient times that “do not eat food in contempt”, so why use this way to get pleasure from the child? For children, red envelopes have no meaning. Please don’t use the objectified standards of the adult world to destroy the children’s village and dignity. Six, please do not force children to sing and dance Think about our childhood, how many of us have had such experiences. But whenever a guest comes to the house, you will be asked to “sing a song to uncle”, “to aunt dance”. But is this really what the child wants? Children are not clowns, nor are they capital to show off their educational success. They are also human beings and have their own lives and dignity. Children should not live a life of performance in the pursuit of gaining the praise of others. Unless your child actively asks for it and likes it, don’t make it difficult for your child. If your child does not greet you in time, “this child is really timid”; if your child does not share his favorite snack with others, “this child is really stingy”; if your child is made to cry by you, “this child just However, you don’t smile at strangers on the road, you don’t give half of your wallet to others, and you do sulk at times. In a child’s world, these are all the same thing. You don’t know my child well, so why label him these unfair labels just because he doesn’t cooperate with your requests and teasing? Eight, please do not just interfere with the mother’s parenting style “breast milk is not nutritious at 6 months, you have to add formula!” The first thing you need to do is to use diapers. Practice with poop and urine!” and “How can you have strength if you don’t eat salt? Your mother always take these tasteless to fool you”, “the hair is so long still not shaved? Do not shave hair can be good!” Thank you for your enthusiasm and kindness, aunts and uncles who say this to me. Just because we were raised the same way doesn’t mean it’s right, let alone the best for our children. A child’s mother has her own parenting philosophy, so please respect each mother and her child.