1.Baby loves to tear the paper, how to do? Babies tear paper without a reason, parents do not have to rush to stop this behavior of the baby. When the baby is six or seven months old, the accidental discovery makes him feel the fun of tearing paper. The baby changes the shape of the paper and makes some sound through hand movements, which is a kind of active exploration behavior based on curiosity and a manifestation of the baby’s active learning. The act of tearing paper, on the one hand, can meet the baby’s curiosity and get a happy feeling, on the other hand, can also exercise the baby’s small muscles and hand-eye coordination. Parents can encourage him to tear the paper into pieces or even confetti, the baby’s hand fine motor development, help intellectual development. When the baby is a little older, parents can guide the baby to tear the paper out of special shapes and contours, just like paper-cutting craft, so that tearing paper into a fun activity. 2.Baby often “hit”, what should I do? 2-3 years old babies are still relatively poor control of their own body, they often just friendly “pat” but is considered to be hitting. In fact, they are unaware of their own “violence”. Parents should first know that he just can not use the correct body movements, so for this baby’s behavior, parents do not have to stop, just give the child the correct demonstration and guidance. But if the baby is angry and excited when hitting, biting, this behavior must be stopped. At this time, parents should not be easily angered, parents first clearly to the baby: “I accept your anger, but I can not allow you to hit”. Parents put themselves in the child’s shoes more often and help the child to express his or her feelings. “Don’t worry, mommy will help you”. This way the child will not take it out on the children. 3. Why does my baby love to throw things? Many parents find that their babies are very keen on the game of “throwing” when they are about 9 months old. All the items that can be caught will be consciously thrown out by the baby, and then let mom and dad pick it up again, the baby is having fun with it. Parents do not have to strictly prohibit this behavior of the baby, but only need to do a good job of cognitive education and to develop the habit of picking up the baby can be. For example, tell the baby what things can be thrown, what things can not be thrown, parents may wish to provide the baby with some fall-resistant items for the baby to play. After the baby throws things out, but also to guide the training of baby things thrown out but also to retrieve the good habits, so he knows that they throw things to pick up their own. However, if the baby is in an angry situation by throwing things to give vent to emotional discontent, parents should stop the baby’s “protest” behavior, and guide him to learn to use language to express his own emotions and needs. 4, baby playing with genitals, how to do? Boys like to use their hands to grab their “penis” around 10 months of age. It is a common exploratory behavior for boys to play with their genitals, and for him, the “penis” is just a part of the body like fingers and toes. Parents often think that this is a very humiliating bad habit or sexual behavior. For this behavior, parents may want to use more interesting toys or participate in different types of activities to divert the baby’s attention, the baby “busy” naturally will be less concerned about the genitals. When the baby is a little older, curiosity about sex, then parents can use some simple and easy to understand statements, explain to the baby to listen. 5.Baby loves to hide things, what does it mean? Naughty babies often put away small things at home, such as keys, remote controls, cell phones, they are happy with this “hide and seek” game. This game can actually exercise the baby’s memory, first to hide things and then find, the baby feels a sense of accomplishment. Parents can play this game more with their babies, not only is it a fun parent-child interaction, parents can also figure out the rules of baby hiding things. The sharp things in the house should be put in the place where the baby can’t get to avoid injury, and valuable things should be collected so as not to lose them. 6.Baby always likes to climb high, can you stop it? When babies are old enough to run and jump, they start to explore the world around them more boldly. Many times babies will do some dangerous actions, such as climbing high. Climbing high can enhance the development of leg muscles, this physical exercise is conducive to the development of the baby’s frontal lobe and cerebellum, and also helps to enhance the baby’s spatial awareness. Parents can take the initiative to create a safe environment for their babies, for example, when the baby is playing climbing games, the mother and the baby’s distance is kept within an arm’s length. Put away sharp or fragile objects at home, or in the baby’s room on the ground with a thick play mat, cautioning the baby not to climb the window or balcony, the corner of the table with a soft mat wrapped, to ensure the safety of the premise, to fully meet the baby’s desire to climb and explore. 7.Baby selfish? Stingy? How to teach? Babies have a tendency to be self-centered by the age of about 3. They often only care about their own needs and feelings, and have not yet learned to be considerate, share, and take the initiative to care for others. So you will find that your baby will assert “sovereignty” over the items they have in their hands and will not let others touch them. Mom and dad do not have to stop this petty behavior, because with the development of the baby’s “socialization” psychology, coupled with the parents’ guidance on the baby’s sharing behavior, the baby will gradually learn to be “generous” up. In this process of guidance, parents can consciously encourage their babies to make more friends and play with their peers, when the baby into the “group”, the exclusive “petty” phenomenon will be greatly improved. If other children want to play with the baby’s toys, but the baby does not let the mother can give guidance hint: “If the baby wants to play with that toy, others do not let you play, what will you do?” Try to let your child experience the feelings of others and let him know that they will be unhappy if he refuses them, so that your child will be able to better appreciate and understand others.