The baby is his own people, but do not think that their own people do not have to pay attention to the art of speaking, especially to the baby, not what you want to say can be said, and for the younger baby, more should bear in mind the “six no”. The baby is also to save face, and self-esteem is fragile and strong, criticize her in a crowd, compare her with others, this is a difficult and unpleasant thing for the education of children, not only make the child heart to you resent, but also not receive the effect of education. This is a mistake I used to make, because I was free before going to bed, and I remembered the education thing, so I talked about it, just to make my baby understand my heart, understand my pain and know her mistakes, but the result of doing so is that we wasted the only little parent-child communication time, and let the baby immediately resist as soon as he saw me talking to her. The baby immediately resists when she sees me in a chatting position. I have found that many families have this situation where the baby becomes the target of criticism when the family gets together to eat. If this situation continues for a long time, the baby will listen to the training as if listening to a song, you sow your he eat his, completely ineffective. 4. criticism one by one to criticize the baby is the main thing is to discuss the matter, do not a shortcomings in a shortcoming to criticize. “Your biggest problem is that you do not dare to perform! Like the last performance, why do not you dare to go up? The other children performed so well! Every one of them was smiling and laughing! You cried when you talked about it, didn’t you? Still crying? Your biggest problem is that you cry!” When criticism loses its focus, the baby doesn’t know what you are talking about. Does this kind of criticism still work? 5. Criticism without comparison All mothers love their children the most, and they always think their children are the best and the cutest. But it’s also strange that mothers open their mouths and shut up: “Why don’t you look at so-and-so? He’s doing so well!” It seems that all the children in the world are better than their own. The comparison goes on and on, but in the end, it hurts each other and makes the advice invalid. The baby is not doing well, and I am often angry, controlling my temper is a painful thing, the fire is in my throat is to swallow, because I understand that education in anger is not fruitful. Let out all the anger, you are painful, but the harm transferred to the baby, simply can not collect the effect of education.