The mother and father originally wanted to provide a good environment for their children to grow up, eat, live, sleep and give their babies the best possible, so they bought walkers, drink orange juice and feed them, not knowing that these are well-intentioned traps. There is a lot of information on the market about parenting that is so dazzling that it is difficult for moms and dads to distinguish right from wrong, so let’s make a summary of these “lies” and share them with you. A newborn baby, whisper, go quietly The fetus in the mother’s womb is actually very noisy, because the amniotic fluid has been shaking and shaking, right next to the baby’s ear, can not be noisy? But after the baby is born, the new parents are misguided – doing their best to create a super quiet environment for the baby. “OMG, this world is so different!” It takes a lot of effort for a baby to adjust, and any mom who has been there knows what it’s like! After two or three months, the baby finally adapted, no noise, but mom and dad took people from the quiet home to go outside, the wind, people, car sounds, etc., which simply called the baby collapse! So, the baby has to toss and turn for a few months to adapt. Auditory stimulation is a very important part of the baby’s sensory development, adequate stimulation of natural sounds is an essential part of the healthy development of each baby. Second, the family has a newborn baby, curtains pulled tightly The baby was born when the visual development is still in a primary state, only light sensitive. The necessary condition for visual development is sufficient natural light (remember! It is natural light, not fluorescent lights, not night lights). Vision is the most important human sense, the baby grows up to read, see the world need to develop good vision. Semi-blind curtains are the most appropriate when your baby is sleeping during the day. In addition, never turn on the night light after your baby falls asleep! When using the bath bombs, never let your baby stare at the bath bombs’ lights! Third, once born to drink sugar water, 4 months to add orange juice, 1 year old to add salt The taste buds of newborns are unusually sensitive, sugar water, orange juice and salt are strong stimulants, may seriously damage the baby’s taste buds, resulting in babies do not love to drink plain water, eating picky heavy. If you accidentally fall into this pit, then you’ll be ready for the next few years may rack your brain to get your baby to eat well! Fourth, fear that the baby does not digest, it has been given to the baby to eat porridge Digestive capacity is constantly developing, but if you never give your baby’s intestines to adapt to a harder food, how can his digestive capacity to improve it? And the lack of biting, chewing and swallowing exercises in the mouth may affect your baby’s oral development and facial muscle development. The baby should have been like a peach blossom, but also eaten into a face like a bitter gourd, should have been eloquent, but also drank into the spit! Five, sit first and then crawl Often I hear parents praise their babies, “Look at my baby less than 3 months old will sit!” Please open your eyes: the baby’s back is not bowed into a C-shaped! Babies are born with big heads and small bodies! Every baby must go through enough lying down and crawling for the neck and back muscles and bones to support his big head! There are countless babies who learn to sit too early, resulting in stooped backs and spinal deformities. So don’t be too happy, if you want your baby to have the perfect curves and body, or hurry up and let your baby learn to belly and crawl! The American Academy of Pediatrics has publicly warned parents a few years ago not to use walkers and walkers for their babies, but we still have a lot of new parents who are kept in the dark and are willing to spend a lot of money to buy advanced walkers and walkers for their babies. These walkers and toddler belts will destroy the child’s balance and affect the baby’s walking posture, and some may not be corrected for life. Hurry up and throw these away, the baby will naturally walk after sufficient crawling, so that the natural development of children are less likely to fall, even if the fall injury is only unimportant parts. Seven, feeding If your baby is more than 1.5 years old you are still feeding, I would like to ask, are you a real mother? You want to ruin the original smart, clever, handy little angel? The role of eating is not only to fill the stomach, more important value is that in the process we can feel the beauty of food and the beauty of life! When babies eat, their own hands and mouths, hands and mouths are well stimulated, for the baby’s hands and language skills have a great impact. Eight, put the poop and urine baby independent urination and defecation involves the development of perceptual ability, muscle control, language skills, hand-eye cooperation and other abilities. Under normal circumstances, babies can urinate and defecate on their own during the day at the age of about 3 years old, and the night may be delayed until about 5 years old. Some children may still occasionally wet the bed at night until the end of puberty. Pooping and peeing not only interferes with and disrupts your baby’s normal physical development, but can also seriously affect your baby’s healthy psychological development. Toilet training for babies is also very necessary.