It should not be overlooked that there is a group of men with what is called “pre-morbid personality”, which is typically characterized by lack of confidence, suspiciousness, reluctance to interact with others, low self-esteem and timidity, easily influenced and implied by the external environment, and inability to objectively evaluate themselves and the environment. Some scholars believe that such men can account for 10-20% of the population, but due to the different research methods, different selection of people and different criteria for defining this “pre-morbid personality”, it may cause obvious bias in the results, “pre-morbid personality” in the general population I am afraid that it is difficult to determine the true occurrence of “premorbid personality” in the general population. The actual occurrence of “pre-morbidities” in the general population is difficult to ascertain, but such tension and anxiety are detrimental to their physical and mental health and can sometimes be a trigger for certain diseases, such as prostatitis. In addition, some men have suffered some bad stimuli in their early childhood, but also to my adult life left a bad psychological problems. The proportion of highly qualified and educated men with a variety of abnormal personalities is also very high, and it is thought that it may be related to the fact that certain aspects of function and needs in these people have been overly repressed. Men today have an extraordinarily difficult life. The excessive expectations of society and women for men as a strong group, the pressure of life and work can make even the best men live a hard life.