Parents are always busy with their own work and often neglect to spend time with their children. When children are small, they are the most insecure time. In life, you can often see that children are generally closer to their mothers, and sometimes with their fathers and strangers together, few words, often do not know what to say. In fact, it is because the father lacks a lot of company when the child is small. Look at the inner world of the children, how much they want to be with their dads. Children say: Dad has a few minefields that should never be touched. 1, in his eyes, the phone is more important than I Dad playing with the phone, I can never be disturbed. I would have liked to see what it was, why mom and dad like to hold it all day, but I just came close, dad was impatient: “Dad is busy, go find your mom”. Sometimes I get angry and snatch the phone directly from his hands, and he is so mean and aggressive. I know, the phone is more important than me anyway. 2, when the father sleeps, absolutely can not be disturbed My father, every day is very busy very busy, I opened my eyes in the morning when he went out, I fell asleep in the evening he came back. Today I woke up early and looked at my dad still sleeping, so I wanted to tease him and let him get up to play with me. But I’m not very good at talking yet, I just shouted: “Come, come, come, come”, and then one hand kept touching my dad’s face, and suddenly I cried when he said “leave me alone”. So my mom rushed over to coax me and scolded my dad, but I was still uncomfortable in my heart. I wanted my dad to get up and stay with me. The child said: Dad often does not attend my parent-teacher conferences Every parent-teacher conference or school performance is always accompanied by my mother, especially when there is a parent-child game session, I especially want my parents to accompany me to complete. But I know it’s impossible because dad says he’s busy making money and working and doesn’t have time to go. Looking at other moms and dads together, I was so envious. I so wish my dad could also come to school to see me perform, instead of coming back to listen to me after each performance to you. The child says: Daddy is often impatient with me When he first walks in the door, I run to him excitedly and beg for a hug. At this time even my favorite mother wants to hug me, I do not give hugs, just want to let Daddy hug. And daddy? When happy, more hugs, smile with me, kiss me, lift me up high. When you’re not happy, you often say, “Go find your mother!” In fact, I just want you to hug me. The child said: Dad, please say I love you to me Dad rarely said I love me, he often taught me: man, fall down to get up by yourself. Be bold, don’t be obsequious. One time, a child grabbed my toy and fought with me, and then I cried. My father yelled at me and said, “You are older than others, why are they still crying” “Why are you so timid” In fact, I am not timid, I am just afraid that if I hurt him, my mother will have to give him medical treatment, which will cost the family a lot of money. Because mom often said that the family does not have money. In fact, dad, if you could express your love more and love me more, I wouldn’t cry when things go wrong, I would grow up like a real man. Children can not grow without the company of their parents, especially the company of the father. In many families, most of the time, only the mother is accompanying the child, the father is a decorative. In fact, in the process of the child’s growth, the father can give a lot: play games with the child Play with the child blocks, small aircraft and other games, can fully develop the child’s intelligence, and promote the relationship between the father and the child. Accompany the child to prepare a gift to the mother are given to the child the best love is the father loves the mother, if you can accompany the child to prepare a birthday gift to the father on the mother’s birthday, so that the child can feel the father’s love more. Feel the warmth of the family. The child’s nature is to play with the child, this time do not always force the child to study. You can play ball, run, play hide-and-seek, etc. with your child to motivate him/her. Be a hardy father In a child’s mind, the father is always there like a superman. Parents are the initial role models for their children, and your toughness, tenacity and responsibility will be the best textbook. Children will definitely imitate more and learn more too. So, dads, put down your hands on the work, cell phones, have time to spend more time with the children. Also more for the wife to share ~ love children, love wife, all your behavior children will see in the eyes, remember in the heart.