The circle of friends can often see “poor children rich women” such statements or articles, but you really understand its true meaning? Many friends feel that the son can not be given too much material from childhood, is poor, daughter on the contrary, to raise well, teach well, what to give what you want, later to marry well. But, is this kind of talk correct? What is the poor way to raise a child poorly? The general misconceptions about raising boys 1, boys have tears not to play lightly. In the minds of parents, the birth of a son, we must let him learn to grow up strong, encounter frustration is not supposed to cry, so when boys cry, you will often hear the words, “You are a boy, how can you cry ah? Like a girl.” In fact, crying is a way to vent emotions, if the child grows up with emotions repressed to the heart, we think the child’s growth will be healthy? So, whether it’s a boy or a girl, it’s a good thing to let your child vent their emotions by crying appropriately. 2, boys learn logic, art and literature are girls learn. Boys’ logical thinking is naturally superior to that of girls, so it is good to train boys to learn logic, but if the child is interested in art and literature, the child should also be encouraged to learn, so that they can be versatile and can cultivate their emotions. 3, boys from childhood to receive physical exercise. Some parents feel that boys need to have a strong body, strong enough to take up a home after the body, but too young children to carry out too much physical exercise, it will cause a certain degree of damage to the body, appropriate to the child to exercise to make the child strong and healthy. 4, boys can not be too mischievous. The original boys are more mischievous, parents feel overwhelmed to educate, so soft and hard not to allow the child trick-or-treating, but this will limit the child’s mobility. In addition, trick-or-treating children actually have great potential, parents who over-regulate their children will exploit the child’s nature, so that the child’s creativity and imagination do not play. How to raise a child poorly is the right 1, poorly raised children, to teach children from childhood to develop good habits of thrift and frugality, not to let the child have to respond to requests. 2, poor children, usually children encounter setbacks do not over-protective, to let children learn to stand up for themselves, strong to face difficulties. 3, poor children, to let children learn to take care of themselves, know how to live independently. 4, poor children, when the child made a mistake, let the child be duly punished, to train the child’s psychological ability to bear. 5, poor children, to let children learn to be responsible from an early age, to make mistakes more responsible, can not use any excuse to shirk responsibility. 6, poor children, to guide the child into an optimistic and kind people, know how to care about others.