We can say role model or support. Who here is willing to answer this question for me? I’ll sell a little. What is the greatest gift a parent can give a child? Is it gold, silver, and treasure? Is it a house? Is it a car? Who here is willing to answer me, what is the greatest gift parents can give to their children? You answer: “Teach your children to grow.” What did this teacher say? That teacher, oh, the best is “companionship”; all good, any more? Any more answers? Oh, “independence”, that’s good, that’s for the qualities of the child. I say that the best gift that parents give to their children is given by the parents, the loving couple, which is the highest quality, which is the best gift. The relationship between parents and children is like a triangle, the bottom two corners are the parents, the top one is the child, the parents’ relationship is stable and the child is relatively stable. Parents love, family integrity and harmony, the child still need to go around to learn, in addition to learn from teachers, learn how to be confident how to behave how to interact? Parents love can not go to the other extreme, the two families to be immersed in love every day, as if a person, so many decades, the child? Seriously neglected, such children must also have problems. I have really met a few cases, which is naturally rare in the country. The second gift should be affirmation and praise. It is very important, and I won’t go into detail because of time. Only when a child receives affirmation and praise from her parents will she learn to appreciate others and affirm herself, and only then will she praise others. Affirmation and praise should not be empty, but specific, such as mom is so busy, thank you for helping me to buy groceries. The third gift is to respect him and his ideas and practices. It is not necessary to seek the best and perfect, wrong, can be corrected and adjusted well, provided that there is no life safety issues and violations of law and discipline, etc., not to hurt others. Respect him as an independent individual, not a parent’s emotional appendage, the child is you two, but not your object, not your pet. You can’t just do whatever you want with it. I won’t go into detail. For an extreme example, the father cheated and divorced, the child followed the mother, the mother said every day in front of the child that the father was wrong, not allowing the child to see the father. I asked the mother, do you want the child to grow up healthy? She said of course! I said as long as you maintain your current style of education, the child’s future must be contrary to your expectations. At least you can’t deny him the right to see his father, right? A child’s genes (body parts) come half from the father and half from the mother, and so does his mental energy. Serious parental quarrels, parental divorce, parents blaming each other in front of the child or behind the child’s back, will tear the child’s physical and mental integrity, and will easily trigger and aggravate the child’s low self-esteem, selfishness, withdrawal, aggression, anxiety, depression, personality disorders and even schizophrenia. Of course there are many other gifts that parents can give their children, both spiritual and material.