There is a father who has a unique way of educating his daughter, he never tutored his daughter to do her homework, but only came back every day to talk to her for ten minutes, only four questions, and then completed his home education. Very effective, worth recommending! These four questions are: 1, did anything good happen at school? 2, what did you do well today? 3, did you get anything good today? 4. Is there anything you need help with from your father? The first question is actually a survey of my daughter’s values, to find out what she thinks is good and what is not; the second question is actually to motivate my daughter and increase her self-confidence; the third question is to let her confirm what she has learned; the fourth question has two meanings, one is that I care about you. The fourth question has two meanings: one is that I care about you, and the other is that learning is your own business. These four simple questions contain a lot of care and concern, and they have proven to be very effective. In the philosophy of education, the most crucial thing to educate children well is to handle the parent-child relationship well. If the parents establish absolute responsibility in the child’s mind, and the child believes that the parents love him or her unconditionally, and believes that all criticism and praise of the parents start for his or her own good, and if the child subconsciously achieves complete belief in this, then this relationship is benign, a stable relationship of mutual care, support and understanding. In this case, the simplest thing to educate a child, in the words of the great Soviet educator Sukhomlinsky, is to “grow up with the child”. However, the parent-child relationship of most people in real life is unstable or distorted, and children do not really trust their parents. All parents love their children, but 98% of Chinese parents take love the wrong way. For example, giving a child the best things to eat and the best clothes to wear is just a way of loving, not love itself. And parents’ love is often conditional, for example, it will appear that if you get the top three on this test, you will take you somewhere to play, etc. Love is a life like the feelings of another life, is a relationship of equality, is unconditional, is a whole acceptance, is to let each other receive, to really be a good parent is not difficult, to educate children must pay attention to the following words: 1, absolutely prohibit high-pressure / scolding children’s practices, to establish an equal relationship; 2, truly unconditional love children, give children in the spiritual sense of love; 3.Be sure to respect the child’s independent personality; 4.Educate the child in a positive way and encourage and praise him/her from time to time; 5.Regulate the parent-child relationship, which is the most important point; 6.Be aware of the child’s personality spirit. Education is three parts teaching and seven parts waiting. Three points of teaching means that the teaching should be in the right amount. Too much teaching will make the child rebellious and counterproductive. The seventh part is that parents should respect the child’s nature and pace of growth, be patient with the child, and let the child try, experience, fail and succeed. The growth of a child requires time and the polishing of the world, and can never be achieved overnight. If you try to help them grow, you will only lose more than you gain. If you really understand the above six words, it is easy to educate your child well.