It is the nature of parents to love their children. But we have to love children sensibly, if the child has the following kinds of behavior, must be stopped, must not be soft. 1, can not get the hands of children playing in the sand, one of them grabbed a small partner’s toy bulldozer, unsuccessful, a bite to each other’s small hands. As a result, the bulldozer as desired to hand. Advice to parents: for children who bite, parents must seriously criticize, let him know that biting is wrong, has caused harm to children, must personally apologize; at the same time, let him understand that children who do not want to lend their toys to play, he should learn to accept this kind of inferiority. In addition to criticism and reasoning, a certain punishment is essential, and the opposite of punishment will be presented to him: pampering and soothing the child who was bitten. Thus, the child understands that attacking others is not only unlikely to succeed, but also to gain any benefit, and thus consciously abandoning aggressive behavior. 2, see the toy can not walk in the supermarket, you refused to buy Barbie, but my daughter clinging to not let go, no matter how you explain, but also a butt to sit on the ground. Advice to parents: show your attitude to the child: not to buy toys today, spilling, crying and no use. If the child does not listen to the parents, unreasonable, may wish to ignore it, continue to choose other items, or pretend to leave, let it sit on the ground crying. It is not wise to compromise, otherwise the child’s capriciousness will intensify. When the child is calm, through reasoning or storytelling and other ways to make it clear that understanding children like, spilling, crying is the result of what can not get, and annoying. The child shows you a pair of pocket crystal shoes and tells you that they were picked up from the floor of the child’s house. Advice to parents: Take the child to return the item immediately and ask him to apologize in person: “I’m sorry, I took your things home to play with them, now I’m returning them to you, please forgive me.” With the process of “returning things to their rightful owners, let children learn to be brave enough to admit their mistakes. 3, 4-year-old children do not have the concept of “property rights” and the sense of belonging, think that what they like and want is their own. In this regard, parents should not take a “no more” attitude. Remember the old adage: don’t take the good with the bad, don’t take the bad with the bad. 4, should not sleep at 10:00 p.m. should go to bed, but the child is the doll and stuffed animals spread out on the bed, continue to play, refused to sleep. Advice to parents: Point to the cartoon clock on the wall to indicate that it is time for your child to go to bed, and tell him to rest on time to ensure that he is not late for school the next day. No child will go to bed voluntarily; they never have enough fun. If parents allow their children to stay up late over and over again, it is difficult to develop a regular routine and good habits. So, no matter what reason the child finds, parents need to find a way to refuse. 5, lying 6 year old child to perform “martial arts”, the vase will be broken to pieces. When his mother asked him about it, he said it was the family cat that did it. Advice to parents: encourage your child to tell the truth. “Tell mommy, what happened? It’s not scary to drop a vase, it’s scary to admit it. Mom likes children who are honest and brave enough to take responsibility for their actions.” In this way, dispel your child’s worries, encourage him to tell the truth, and hug him and praise him at the first opportunity after he tells the truth. Children over 6 and 7 years old know that lying is wrong, but do it to avoid punishment. If you believe him, or even if you don’t, you’re not pursuing him, you’re encouraging the habit, and he’s falling deeper and deeper into the mire of lies.