1, pay attention to the needs of the baby To understand the baby in detail and depth, pay attention to the needs of the baby. Not only from the language, but also from their daily behavior to feel the baby’s inner needs, potential needs. 2, respect the baby’s view In communication with the baby, mom and dad should remember that the baby is also a subject of discourse. So, when talking to your baby, don’t just express your own ideas, but also take seriously the need to respect your baby’s views and have a healthy interaction with your baby. 3, appreciate the baby’s feelings When the baby is aggrieved outside, separated from his or her best friend or beloved pet, his or her delicate little mind will be sad for half a day. Parents just keep telling him/her “it’s okay, be strong” and “it’s nothing to be sad about”, which will make your baby feel that your parents can’t understand his or her feelings at all. ? I would feel the same way if I were you.” I believe there will be a very different effect. 4.Understand your baby’s developmental level If parents say things that your baby can’t understand or put forward some requirements that your baby can’t reach, I believe that not only will your baby find it hard and stressful, but the dialogue between parents and children will also be difficult to get on line. 5, seriously answer the baby’s questions When the baby asks a question, you should first understand its true meaning, and respond to the baby’s needs. For example, go grocery shopping with you. If you know the real purpose of the baby, you can say: “Yes! Do you want to go with me?” The baby will be happy to hear this. In addition, for the baby’s intellectual questions, parents should also be careful to answer, or take the baby together to find the answer, so that the baby will take the initiative to ask their parents, no matter what problems they encounter in the future. 6, avoid using negative meaning of the tone of voice can not use “I order you to ……”, “I warn you ……” You’d better hurry ……”, “You have five seconds ……”, “I’m going to count to one or two, “I’ll count to one, two, three …… otherwise ……” “You should …… “, “You’re so stupid”, “You’re so bad”, “You’re so disappointing to me”, “No ……” and so on with command, command, warning, threat, reproach, abuse, rejection and other negative meaning of the tone of voice. 7, often change the fresh topic often change the fresh topic. For example: “Guess what happened to me today?” , “Do you know why little babies like dinosaurs the most?” If one day, astronauts really come to Earth ……” and other questions, I believe it will be better than “How was your day?” I believe it will be better than “How was your day?”, “Happy or not” to arouse the baby’s interest in talking. 8, to enrich the baby’s life experience parent-child conversation topics. Often from the life, so it is important to cultivate a keen, curious baby heart. Parents can take their babies to observe various things around them, such as the flowers and plants around them. The color, shape, and brand of the cars on the road, the dress and speech of the pedestrians on the street, the department store windows, and so on, can all be used as material for conversation, and the baby’s powers of observation will naturally improve.