Recently, some parents said they had encountered a nuisance: 3-year-old baby recently learned to lie! “Break things do not admit, did not finish eating say finished eating, because do not want to go to school and pretend to be sick ……”, the mother lamented, “Oh my God, the baby is still so small learn to lie, grow up how to get it, will not lie into The mother exclaimed, “My God, the baby is still so young to learn to lie, how to grow up, will not lie into the sex?” Some experts say, “Lying as a personality factor has an immeasurable impact on a child’s growth process. Perhaps, many parents think that lying is not a good thing, but from a psychological point of view, children who lie are mentally higher than those who do not lie. It is important for parents to understand and guide their children when they lie.” It has been proven that no matter how much you teach your child, sooner or later they will lie to you. The older your child gets, the more lies they tell and the more skillful they become. So, why do children lie? Fear of punishment Children are curious about everything around them, so they are especially prone to do wrong. At this time, children are nervous and fearful inside, afraid of reprimand and scolding from parents, and are under a kind of oppression inside, fearing punishment and inducing them to lie. Parents’ behavior has a direct and profound impact on the child’s growth. If a child does not want to go to kindergarten, some parents always like to say, “Go once today, but not tomorrow. Over time, children will think it is normal to lie and invariably learn to lie from their parents. Lying is not pointed out in time When a child lies, the parents do not point out and criticize and educate the child in time, and do not object to other human-like situations, and do not show the right attitude, so that the child is accustomed to accepting the parents’ attitude that there is nothing wrong with lying. How to deal with lying children? 1.Treat the child’s lie well Objective analysis according to different situations, correct education guidance to him, even if the child has a mistake, as long as the truth is told, should affirm his way of being a human being, and guidance. Do not treat your child in a negative way such as scolding, punishment, reprimand, or avoid him to cope with parents with lies. To become friends with the child and establish a relationship of mutual trust; if the child lies because of the parents, the parents should review themselves, self-criticism, and make a reasonable explanation to him. 2, do not make extreme reactions Parents should explain to their children that everyone makes mistakes in life. Once the child is found to lie, do not reprimand, but as if nothing had happened, can be induced by consciously praising a friend’s child in front of him for doing something wrong and honestly speaking out is a good boy and will be forgiven. In general, children know that they have done something wrong, in the absence of pressure, will often take the initiative to speak out.