We all say that baby is the most beautiful gift from God, why there are still children thrown down the stairs, crushed to death with their bare hands, abused and burned children and other abnormal phenomena? Ask yourself, when your child was born, did you also have a moment of regret or even anger towards your baby? Even if the child does not exist, it would be better to have a terrible idea? After thinking about these issues, also as a mama, we can not be a brain to follow the group a curse Oh! Then why in the end there will be mama actually emotional out of control to put their own baby child in the life and death?
The killer is – postpartum depression!
And now with the advanced age of maternity and raising costs, the pressure of raising a child is well known. Many mamas, before and after the birth of a child, will be on their own life, the status of the family began to have a variety of questions, confusion and entanglement, do not underestimate these seemingly small worries, beware of big hidden dangers Oh.
9 symptoms, how many of them you have?
1, the mood is often very low.
2, the spirit is in a highly aroused (easily angered) or blocked state.
3, to all or most activities obviously lack of interest or pleasure.
4. Feeling pointless or self-conscious when things go wrong.
5.Significant weight loss or gain.
6.Insomnia or excessive sleep.
7.Frequent fatigue or lack of energy.
8.Decreased thinking power or inattentiveness.
9.Recurring thoughts of suicide or infanticide.
2 or less
Only 2 or less mamas, and no postpartum depression Oh! During this period, it is normal for mamas to have some mood swings and physical exhaustion. If you have a lax mind and weak body, it may be caused by too much work and not enough rest.
3-4 articles
In such a state of mamas, is a mild depression, but not not optimistic Oh! At this time, most of the mamas are accumulating stress and fatigue inside for a small period of time, and usually do not pay attention to rest and relaxation, if you continue to let yourself in a state of depression, the degree of depression may worsen and escalate, that is not good!
5-7
If you have 5-7 conditions (1 or 2 of them must have lasted for more than 2 weeks), your life is already very affected. At this point can be seen as moderate depression, should seek help in counseling! In fact, psychological counseling is not the only place where people with weak hearts go, mamas should be in the right frame of mind, once you feel that after self-healing and support from others still feel wrong, you should not let it go, take the initiative to seek professional psychological measurement and counseling, and if necessary, take antidepressants to protect your baby to avoid further deterioration!
8 and above
If the mamas have reached this point and want to give these mamas a good hug. A long time in these conditions is already a major depression, and the situation of the mamas is actually not optimistic. Due to the long depression backlog, the body functions are very likely to have been damaged and affected, mamas actually have no way to control their emotions, feel very painful, may also appear to be suicidal or infanticidal thoughts or even visions. At this point, it is important to be identified by a counselor or even a psychiatrist, and take relevant medication and treatment according to the situation and guidelines.
Through the above test, do you have some understanding of postpartum depression? Life is precious and life is beautiful! Please do not let depression have any chance to take advantage of your emotions!
The above test is for reference only, if you want more specialized measurement and confirmation, you must go to a regular psychological institution or hospital!