In my years of clinical practice, one of the most frequently asked questions is: Can I get married? Can I get pregnant and have children? According to the research and clinical, scientifically give some answers to questions, there are mistakes are their own responsibility! First, we need to clarify what is the disease? Severe mental disorders, such as schizophrenia, require long-term or even lifelong medication in terms of treatment, and the effects of medication may be more pronounced. At this level of understanding, antipsychotic drugs, especially the generation of antipsychotic drugs, may have obvious effects on pregnancy and childbirth, mainly on the neurological development of the fetus. This is especially true during the third to fifth trimester of pregnancy. For milder disorders, such as anxiety disorders and moderate depression, it is possible to consider childbirth when clinically cured and fully recovered due to the overall short duration of medication, and recent foreign studies have confirmed that there is no good evidence that medication in women with depressive disorders significantly affects the offspring, even in small doses during pregnancy. Of course, reports need to be treated with caution. Second, the duration of the disease and disease characteristics affect. If the duration of the disease is long, recurrent, or co-morbid with other psychiatric symptoms, such as hallucinations and delusions with logical disorders, or with obsessive-compulsive symptoms, it may be difficult to treat and require long-term medication to control the disease. It is very serious. Even if the patient is cured, he or she is still misunderstood because of the psychiatric hospitalization. It is conceivable that the patient will not be able to find a partner, not to mention having children. The most heartbreaking thing is that family members are also prejudiced against such patients, taking for granted that they do not have the right to get married and fall in love and have children, which is a great injustice to them, as people are born equal, including all rights and interests, which is a social phenomenon caused by the public’s lack of understanding of mental illnesses and should be changed! Therefore, patients have the right to fall in love and get married, and bystanders should never misunderstand and interfere. For pregnancy and childbirth, should be treated with caution, for their condition, future risks and genetic impact should be under the guidance of professional doctors, gradually, not too hasty!