At the critical moment when the college entrance examination is approaching, the role of parents is crucial, then, in the final stage of the college entrance examination, what can parents do before the examination to make their children play better? 1, how to guide the child to correctly view the ups and downs of the results? The process of imperfection is not important, we are seeking the perfect result, the tide is rising and falling, just because there are ups and downs to be more dramatic. Parents should correctly treat their children’s performance ups and downs, it is very inhumane to ask children to improve all the time. Parents should guide their children to correctly view the ups and downs of their children’s performance. Don’t be afraid to take a bad test. Exposing problems in the usual way is an opportunity. If you spend two hours doing a test paper, all right, psychologically very happy, but in fact is useless, that is the same as the two hours spent in vain, no problem exposed at all. In addition, the goal should not be set too high, creating the illusion of failure. When there are wrong questions, carefully find out whether it is basic knowledge, or basic skills, or basic methods on the problem, do not have baggage, before the big test to expose the problem is good. 2, how to help children reduce stress? High school students bear the pressure of three mountains, learning, mental and economic pressure. The pressure of learning at school has been great, but also at home is often in a relaxed state, but now the parents are more nervous than the child. Parents look at their children as soon as they get home and do not study, they are anxious and criticize their children for not studying, which is undoubtedly not conducive to their children’s college entrance exams. If the child is not particularly unmotivated, do not harsh the child is studying at all times, the child is also an ordinary person, will also have tired time, home should let them have a warm feeling. 3, reduce the study outside of the relevant events on the child’s interference Before the college entrance examination, do not talk to the child with the information related to the college entrance examination. Parents on the college entrance examination voluntary, independent enrollment and other college entrance examination related information can start from WeChat or the Internet, on the one hand, when the child needs to apply for voluntary parents can give targeted advice, in addition, can also reduce the tension of parents. Involved in the college entrance examination voluntary, independent enrollment parents first research, do not let the child too much involvement. Reduce the negative interference to the child. 4, more chat with children Parents to reduce socializing, every time before going home, first negative are left at the door, with a relaxed face home. Children see me very relaxed home, but also willing to chat with me. The most important thing is to talk to your child about anything other than learning, about positive energy content that is not related to learning, and to help your child with your heart and wisdom, seemingly casually, after talking, your child will be much more relaxed. If a parent has a sad face, the child will not want to talk to you. Parents keep themselves in a good mood, is to give the child the greatest emotional support, every day to the child a sunny smile, is to give them the best pacification. 5, accompanied by the child’s college entrance examination to prepare carefully Children from the examination hall, a sad face, how to say that the test is not good? A happy face, the test is good and how to say. The key time, what words let the child like a dream, what words let the child confidence, do not children do not like to hear what to say what, the child obviously did not test well, but also nothing nothing to say an end. Do you think it can be okay? Give you an example. If your child finished the first subject language, out when very excited. You have to let people get excited for a while, how difficult it is, more than ten minutes have passed, I said: “The most important thing you should do now is to forget about the last test, the best way to forget is to prepare for the next subject, the next subject of the book I have brought you.” Parents should remember that great joy is easy to great sorrow, parents have to say something that works, the less said the better. The third subject comprehensive out, the child a depressed face, want to cry, I walked with a while, the child said, “I do not take the afternoon test, I did not take the morning test is not good, this year certainly can not get into Peking University, I am ready to repeat, next year’s test.” Then at this time, you can tell your child that: four subjects in the college entrance examination, the normal is two subjects a little better, two subjects a little worse, adding up to your normal level. Did you normally do well in all four subjects? She said she didn’t do it. At this time, you can tell your child that it is impossible to expect to appear in the examination hall of the college entrance examination. Adjust your mind, if you do well in this subject in the afternoon, you can still do well in three subjects. At this point, the child may tell you and say, yeah, I spell it out in the afternoon. 6, moderate physical exercise and activities before the examination, candidates are overly fatigued. Exercise must be carried out, but do not overload. The original like how to exercise also how to exercise, do not change the way, do not deliberately change the intensity, casual is good. The intensity of exercise should not be too high, but mainly not fatigue. Exercise is the most effective way to quickly recover from brain fatigue, but also a good way to relieve stress. In addition, family activities are really important. For example, on Saturday and Sunday, go shopping with your child for a while, lead your child to the nearest family or friend’s home for a short time, and so on. However, you should avoid treats, parties and other social occasions that interfere with the candidate’s revision. 7, parents themselves must remain “normal” with the past themselves do not have to make the child feel out of “abnormal”. Suddenly breakfast more dishes, send more fruit in the evening, suddenly began to chant “not nervous oh, what can test”, suddenly the family TV no longer on …… best surrounding environment atmosphere do not have any big changes, the environment to maintain “normal”. 8, do not take time off work to go home because of the child’s college entrance exams Migrant workers are often out for a long time, children near the college entrance exams, whether it is the father or mother, do not take time off work to go home because of the child’s college entrance exams. Even if you can not go to work, do not tell the child to feel that parents for the children even classes are not on, even if you take time off, but also the usual “rest”, do not leave a flaw, to not be the child has a sense of guilt. 9, pay attention to the girl’s physiological period to pay attention to whether in the physiological cycle, according to the advice of medical experts, the general situation does not do drug intervention, experts also reminded that the period does not lead to memory loss, reaction speed decline. Of course there are still some reminders to tell you that girls should not eat cold drinks, take cold showers or wash their feet with cold water before their periods, and keep a happy mood. If the situation is special and there is dysmenorrhea, parents can consult a gynecologist so that their children can meet the high school entrance exam in the best condition.