A three- or four-year-old child saw a child’s beautiful doll and told his companion, “I have one too, and my mom bought me the same doll yesterday. The mother was shocked, how can such a big child lie! In fact, children of this age often take what they imagine in their heads as reality, not Gu intention to lie. Parents must distinguish whether their child is imagining or lying. When a child does something wrong, in order to avoid parental blame, to avoid being punished, and deliberately lie to cover up the truth, this is called lying. For children to confuse imagination and reality, the mother only needs to remind: “is it what you think or is it true”, but sometimes the children themselves can not tell the difference, and when they grow up, they will be able to tell the difference. There are those types of child lying encounter child lying, parents should calmly carry out analysis child lying type: 1, imagination type: young children with curiosity and self-centered characteristics, the mind from time to time breeding some childish exaggeration and rotten ideas. 2, masturbation type; children tend to be competitive, equate their fantasy to the truth, as a way to make up for their young incompetence, to achieve self-satisfaction. 3. The child’s ability to distinguish between right and wrong is poor, and if there is dishonest behavior among adults, the child will unconsciously imitate it. 5, forced: the child made a mistake, did the wrong thing, and afterwards admitted the mistake, told the truth, but got a reprimand, scolded by parents, and next time encounter the same situation, for fear of being punished, they will lie as a The next time they encounter the same situation, for fear of being punished, they will lie as a means. How to deal with children who lie at a young age! Parents are very worried about this. What can be done to correct your child’s lying behavior? Parents need to do the following: trust and respect their children: Parents who doubt their children’s honesty for no good reason can lead to adverse psychological changes, from aggression and resentment to disobedience and even revenge. Some children deliberately use trick-or-treating behavior to express their rebellion, this rebellious psychology will aggravate the mutual distrust between parents and children, which in turn creates an environment for children to lie, so parents should fully trust your child and respect your child. Create a good environment: “Those who are close to the vermilion are red, and those who are close to the ink are black”. If you are with a lying child, you will pick up the bad habit of lying, so teach your child to choose a “good friend”. In the eyes of children, parents are their noble idols, so parents should set an example. Insist on the principle of positive education: praise your child more and criticize him/her less. Praise and encourage your child’s good behavior, especially when he shows honest behavior, you should pay special attention. Help and teach your child how to solve problems in daily life as much as possible. Teach your child the ability to distinguish right from wrong: Although children are young, they are also vain and competitive, and because they do not have the ability to evaluate morality and a proper sense of social value, they inevitably turn their competitive nature into vanity, which leads to lying. Therefore, it is important to cultivate a correct and healthy concept of competition in children from an early age. Through the usual teaching by example, telling stories, analyzing the small things around them, explaining some truths of being a human being, so that children can distinguish right from wrong, not to do what they should not do, not to say dishonest words, and when they have done something wrong unintentionally, they know that honesty is a virtue, and that it is still a good child to correct mistakes.