Abstract: In life, despite the fact that boys and girls are born different, it is still possible to find aspects that are easy for a boy or girl’s baby parents to worry about. Boys and girls are treasures, and it’s hard to simply draw conclusions about who is better or harder to raise. The environment in which the child grows up and the way the mother and father raise him is the key to deciding which aspect of him is more of a headache. 1. Who is disobedient and unruly? Boys! When mom says “don’t ……” or “talk properly”, boys are a bit indifferent, they only get picked up by mom and dad or receive a little substantial punishment, then they will understand what’s going on. Girls are more likely to take these reminders into their heads. Why do boys always seem to be deaf to their mothers’ words? In fact, their natural “hearing” is indeed not as good as that of girls, which is determined by the physiological structure of boys and girls, girls perform better in speech recognition, hearing frequency range, and the development of language areas in the brain is also faster. 2, who is a small fight, vulnerable to injury? Boys! For boys, the house is an indoor gymnasium, stuffed toys are not held in the hands of the little boy, but to throw grenades …… In general, boys are more aggressive and more difficult to be controlled. Adventure, always makes some part of their brain extremely excited. However, compared to girls, boys have more wounds and bumps on their bodies not for nothing, which can make the boys stronger, more independent and more confident in character. In the face of natural adventurers like boys, parents can remind them to take it easy, while parents of girls need to encourage their children to do something more daring, such as jumping off the fence, playing a little more exciting slide, or swimming a little deeper into the water. 3. Who is more likely to have problems communicating with others? When you are a boy, you are a girl when you grow up! From birth, boys and girls show different interests. Girls are very sensitive to the subtle changes in the human face, while boys are more addicted to doing sports by themselves. As a result, it is easy for girls to pick up on signals beyond adults’ words, such as expressions and vocal tones, while boys not only speak later and have a poorer vocabulary, but also have an extremely difficult time connecting people’s emotions to certain words. However, by the time children reach about 8 years of age, what was once an advantage for girls slowly begins to become a burden. Their strengths allow them to put too much energy into interacting and communicating with others. Their heads start to wonder who is angry again? Who said what, and what did it mean? 4. Who has a harder time building a sense of self-worth? Girls! Building a good sense of self-worth is crucial to a child’s life. However, because a girl is always more submissive and cares more about what others think, she can grow up looking unconfident and insecure. A girl’s habit of putting the needs of others first and ignoring her own inner feelings and needs can greatly harm her sense of self-worth. Although, she also often enjoys the kind of attention and the pleasure that comes from being understanding, the more she suppresses her will to cater to others, the less confidence she will find. 5. Who is more likely to have trouble with school? Most of the time it’s the boys! Today’s education system is definitely not a haven for boys. Sitting in classrooms all day and listening to lectures, as well as the great emphasis on academic performance makes boys seem very helpless. Especially during their first few years in school, the vast majority of boys are left far behind by girls because it is simply too difficult to keep boys focused, in control of their behavior and articulate their thoughts well. In school, the only thing that boys do better than girls is learning content that involves a sense of space, such as geometry. The best way for parents to cope is to be more tolerant of the parts they are not good at and give them some stress-free time to get used to that! Reminder: On the question of who is harder to raise, boys and girls, at least one thing can be summed up. It seems that boys will have more trouble in those earliest years, while girls’ problems will erupt later, and around puberty is their danger period. In a word, whether your family is a boy or a girl, parents always have endless worries, the difference only lies in why you worry and when you worry.