Case: Yueyue just married a few days, the couple is still immersed in the sweet new life, but “old friends” suddenly visited, the couple was caught off guard. The husband Weiwei wanted to have a normal sex life, but Yueyue strongly disagreed, and when the menstrual period comes, you can’t have intercourse. But seeing her husband’s uncomfortable look, Yueyue could not bear it, so she looked up information on the Internet and found that there are so many claims on the Internet, the public has a point, the mother-in-law has a point, so people are more confused. The young couple is thin-skinned and too embarrassed to consult a doctor, so for safety reasons the husband had to “hold back”. We propose the following methods for reference: 1, safe menstrual sex in our Chinese traditional thinking, menstruation is not sex, because many people regard menstrual blood is unclean, dirty, “hit red” will cause harm to men. Modern medical research has concluded that menstrual blood is not harmful to men, but it is the best breeding ground for bacteria. In addition, the opening of the cervix during menstruation makes it easier for bacteria to enter the uterus through the cervix causing retrograde infection. However, many women in the West have come up with the slogan “It’s a waste of time if you’re not happy during your period”, and many believe that sex during menstruation is not harmful. From a medical point of view, sex during menstruation is possible when the woman is healthy and fully prepared for health and safety. So if the husband is really “thirsty” and the wife is healthy and resistant, you can have safe sex, it is recommended to use condoms and pay attention to cleanliness and hygiene afterwards to avoid bacterial infection. 2, “sexual happiness” before and after the menstruation (1) enjoy “sexual happiness” in advance of the upcoming menstruation, in general, women often want to have more sex, one is so that you can make up for the menstruation when “delayed “time, in advance of the arrangement should enjoy sex; two is before the physiological period, women due to changes in hormone levels, the need for sex is relatively strong. Before the start of the physiological period is a relatively safe period, and often the period when women most want to have sex. This arrangement meets both the physiological and psychological needs. (2) release the accumulated “desire” just after the menstruation, is also a safe period, coupled with the accumulation of abstinence before, another period of frequent sex began. Don’t think you can be reckless at this time, pay attention to hygiene is necessary, especially when the menstruation is not completely clean. In addition, this time do not move roughly, just repair the uterus, or need to take care of. Some people just don’t pay attention to this issue and cause harm to women, and this harm is not only physical but may also be psychological. Therefore, throughout the menstrual cycle, the husband should be gentle and considerate, to give women some care, so that not only can enhance the relationship between the couple, but also to make sex more and more refreshing. In fact, women in addition to the monthly “old friends”, there is a period that hinders sexual happiness, that is, pregnancy. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are getting into. Therefore, early sexual life is not appropriate to cause the uterus to be shocked or cause uterine contractions, triggering miscarriage. Health tip: Sexual intercourse in early pregnancy is better than 1-4 times a month. Postural movements, such as normal position with the husband’s arm straight, crossed position without pressure on the abdomen or dilated position, should be gentle and avoid violent stimulation. Husband should be concerned about understanding wife, for the health of mother and child, early pregnancy to minimize sexual life. 2, mid-pregnancy, appropriate sex mid-pregnancy fetus basically developed and formed, pregnancy is more stable; early pregnancy reaction also passed, sexual desire increased, the whole body condition of pregnant women also entered the best stage. The mid-pregnancy moderate sex life, beneficial to the love of the couple and the healthy development of the fetus. Research at home and abroad shows that: the couple’s love and affection during pregnancy, pregnant women are happy, can effectively promote the growth and development of the fetus, the child born responsive, language development and physical health. But sex is not more than good, must be reasonably arranged, the posture and frequency to pay attention to, to avoid adverse effects on the fetus. Health tips: this is a safe period, sexual life to 1-2 times a week is appropriate, sexual intercourse can take the husband and wife accustomed to and comfortable position, but be careful not to compress the abdomen, position can be used in the front side position, side lying position, front sitting position or back position. 3, late pregnancy, can be exempt from the old view that this period is never to have sex, modern medical research that, as long as there is no clear pregnancy disease, can have sex in late pregnancy, but be extra careful. This is because the slightest impropriety may cause premature rupture of membranes, infection, premature birth and other conditions. It is recommended to stop having sex 4 weeks before the due date to avoid premature delivery. Health tip: Couples should control the number of times they have sex, 1-4 times a month, to avoid accidents. The time should be shortened, the action should be soft, and it is best to use the back side position where the husband holds the pregnant woman from behind to avoid causing pressure on the abdomen. In addition, the husband can also solve the physiological needs through masturbators and other means.