“There is no parent who doesn’t want his or her children to be successful. They also want their children to grow up happily and learn what they need to learn. However, this is not the case. Before they grow up, children learn to be stubborn and even go against their parents in every way, leaving them sad and disappointed, not knowing what’s wrong. Children enter puberty is generally in the age of twelve, three years old, and this age is usually in the second year of junior high school, in this period of time is most likely to appear in the reverse psychology as well as the reverse behavior, the reasons are as follows: 1, the child’s curiosity is very strong, which is one of the factors that produce the reverse psychology. With the growth of age, children’s experience and knowledge are also enriching. They will have some of their own views and judgments, and if they are in conflict with adults, children are prone to insist on their own views and produce confrontational thinking with adults. 2, the child’s sense of independence increased, which is another factor in the emergence of rebellious psychology. Junior children, with their own sense of independence, but also very much hope, to be able to rely on their own thinking to decide what they do. Do not want to obey the guidance of adults, and even less willing to be forced to accept their own unwillingness to do things, which is easy to conflict with adults. 3, the child’s sense of maturity and sense of adulthood is also a factor in the emergence of rebellious psychology. Adolescent children always think they have grown up, and also hope that adults can treat themselves as adults. If they are still taught as children, they are prone to reverse psychology. 4, affected by objective negative factors. Children grow up in a bad environment, parents’ relationship is not harmonious, parents’ behavior, let the child be affected by the bad influence, etc., are easy to let the child produce bad psychological state. These are the common reasons why children have a reverse psychology. The best way to deal with the child’s reverse psychology is for parents to do: 1, learn to respect the child’s ideas and behavior; 2, something to communicate with the child, so that the child feels respected; 3, do not simply rude treatment of the child’s childish immaturity of the idea to use the identity of a friend and the child to make it clear; 4, everything to lead by example, to give the child a role model; 5, so that the child can independently complete the He can do things, do not interfere too much.