In response to the current tension between doctors and patients, and the lack of trust between doctors and patients, I summarize my experience in the process of clinical diagnosis and treatment, I think that before treating a disease, we must first adjust the spirit. The first one is the doctor’s spiritual conditioning. The doctor should calm his mood, adjust his best state, pay full attention to the patient’s condition, consider all aspects carefully, and find out the cause or mechanism of the disease. The second is to regulate the patient’s mood, the first is to calm the patient’s mood, care about the patient’s purpose of this visit, sympathize with the patient’s suffering. Strive for the cooperation of the patient and the patient’s family. Get the understanding of patients and their families. This is not only conducive to the early recovery of patients, but also reduce the occurrence of conflicts between doctors and patients.