Babies come to earth, from the first moment they hit the ground, they begin to receive education in human society, and slowly, they will gradually change from a “biological human being” to a “social human being”, and they will develop various psychological activities as a human being. From 0 to 3 years old, in addition to physically satisfying the need to eat well, sleep well, live a regular life and have a clean and hygienic environment, babies also need to satisfy their psychological needs. So, what are these young babies thinking? What are their psychological needs? Wake up in the morning and open his eyes, want to see the smiling face of parents Baby needs a good start every day, wake up in the morning without having to be rushed by adults to rush him to get up; so that he opened his eyes to see his familiar, like the smiling face of relatives to welcome: “Baby morning, baby sleep well? Mr. Sun invites your baby to get up!” After a few minutes, when the baby is fully awake and in a happy mood, then get up for him to dress, wash his hands and face. After 2 years of age, babies can have breakfast with their parents at the same table. Although this period of time in the morning is short, babies can feel affectionate and joyful in the short time they spend with their parents. When mom and dad leave home to go to work, hug or kiss your baby’s face and make skin-to-skin contact with him to fulfill his emotional needs; say a few words of encouragement, smile and say goodbye to your baby. This period of time in the early morning, parents’ smiling faces and concern will bring new breath and good mood to the baby’s day. However, many working parents, often ignoring the baby’s psychological needs, focusing only on their own to catch up, encountered their own wake up late, work time is approaching, but also anxious, bad mood, action and language is inevitably rude and even cranky. Such a scenario is very common: mom and dad panicked to do things, the mouth rushed to urge the child, “fast! Hurry up and get up.” “Why are you so slow? Hurry up and eat!” Or complain about the child, “You procrastinate every day, so I’m always late for work.” Such a panicky and bad start, so that the child early in the morning to feel not friendly, but irritable; see not the smiling face, but nervous boredom expression. The child receives bad stimuli, negative emotions, psychological upset, which will affect his normal life throughout the day. Want to talk and play with parents Before the age of 3, the baby is particularly attached to parents, often want to be close to parents, talk and play. Therefore, parents home from work, should spend a little time to listen to the baby’s statements, questions, and for the baby to read children’s songs, tell stories, sing songs or play with him. The time spent is not much, mom and dad can also relax a little, transfer the tension of a day of work outside, but also to bring happiness and comfort to the baby. The baby’s psychological satisfaction, on the contrary, will be very happy to go alone to play or help parents do some small things. Some mothers and fathers are busy at work, busy with household chores, but also read the evening school, some have to watch TV or play mahjong, often only take into account the baby’s needs of life, while ignoring the baby’s psychological needs, do not put the baby’s emotional requirements in mind. When the baby took a toy to look for parents to play or speak to parents, the answer heard is: “Don’t bother me, you go play by yourself!” Some even scold the child for interfering, “What a nuisance, can’t you see I’m busy?” Wanting to be close to mom and dad, but suffering from parents’ coldness and unwelcome, the baby will definitely feel strongly sad and frustrated, and tantrums and crying are inevitable. Some moms and dads blame their babies for not behaving well and “acting out” without realizing that the cause is actually in the parents themselves. Need to live in a harmonious family environment A harmonious family is the cradle of baby’s happiness. Babies need to live in an environment where parents love each other, family members are harmonious and respect each other, which is a necessary condition for children’s healthy physical and mental development. Parental discord, family members often contradict each other, outbursts, rude behavior, will make the baby nervous, worried; or due to bad mood, adults will be angry at the baby, the baby as a “punching bag”, the baby more aggrieved, do not know what to do. Especially when parents deepen the conflict to divorce, fighting each other for the child, the child’s favorite things to lure him to stand on their own side, against each other, so that the baby does not know what to do, can not distinguish between right and wrong, easy to form a selfish, hypocritical, lying and see the wind at the helm of the undesirable behavior, the seriousness of the child will affect the development of the child’s personality, and traumatize the child’s mind. Expect to be respected by parents Every baby has its own needs and interests, they want to be respected by parents, children from childhood to be respected, will produce self-esteem, will grow up to respect others. Therefore, there should be a democratic atmosphere in the family. Parents who ask their children to help them should use the tone of voice of request or consultation, not forced orders. Parents should also say “thank you” to their children when they are done. Parents should admit their mistakes if they have done or said something wrong, and apologize to their children if they have blamed or wronged them. Children will inevitably have mistakes and faults and unsatisfactory behavior, parents should be guided, to help him correct his shortcomings and mistakes, never in front of the public to discuss, accuse the child, such as saying that the child is very stupid, disobedient, like biting and hitting and so on. This will reinforce bad behavior and hurt the child’s self-esteem. Some parents take the child as a plaything, some unconsciously tease the child, such as look at the baby grows white and chubby is very cute, call him a little fat pig. The baby looks thin called “little monkey”. The baby is slow to respond, parents are annoyed to call him a “fool”, “asshole”. These are all disrespectful to the child’s personality. Although the child is small, but they also have their own personality dignity, once the personality is insulted, the psychological will produce unpleasant emotions. Moreover, in case the child loses the psychological requirements of human dignity, the consequences are endless. If parents can understand the psychological needs of their children, the children will live a happy life and have a healthy physical and mental development.