The prevalence of erectile dysfunction in Chinese men is about 40%, while the consultation rate of erectile dysfunction in Chinese men is only 20%. The prevalence of premature ejaculation in men in China is about 30%, while the consultation rate of premature ejaculation in Chinese men is less than 10%. The prevalence of female stress urinary incontinence in China is over 30%. The consultation rate of female stress urinary incontinence in China is only 10%. The prevalence of overactive bladder in China is 6-11%, and 85% of patients do not seek medical attention. In almost all urology clinics in China, patients with urinary stones (prevalence of about 10%) and chronic prostatitis (prevalence of about 50%) account for more than 70% of all patients. This is because the pain and discomfort caused by urinary stones and chronic prostatitis are intolerable, while erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, female stress incontinence, and overactive bladder disorder mainly lead to a decrease in the quality of life of patients, and the discomfort caused is within the patient’s tolerable range. It can be seen that patients who do not seek medical attention are mostly working out their own solutions or suffering in silence. The main reason for this phenomenon is the patient’s lack of awareness. 1, patients do not know enough about the disease. For example, erectile dysfunction is a local manifestation of systemic diseases, especially cardiovascular diseases and early manifestations of metabolic diseases, and delayed treatment may lead to very serious consequences; for example, premature ejaculation is not identified self-medication, not only can not solve the root of the problem, and even lead to more serious side effects; for example, many people think that the elderly female urine leakage is incurable. In fact, the majority of female stress urinary incontinence can be cured; for example, overactive bladder can lead to anxiety, depression and other emotional abnormalities, and the long-term impact on patients’ life, work and study is immeasurable. 2, the patient’s concern about the domestic medical process and the lack of awareness of the shame of their own medical treatment. It is not news that domestic hospitals are overcrowded with patients, and a morning queue of just a few minutes of consultation time, thousands of dollars of expenditure deters many people; they are ashamed to talk about some privacy issues, worried about being socially isolated, discriminated or prejudiced. Solutions: 1. Understand the basic knowledge of the disease. Use books or the Internet to understand some common means of disease diagnosis and treatment, treatment effects, treatment time and costs. Ask your doctor about this during your visit, and he or she will give you advice or recommend a certain treatment plan, but you need to choose a treatment plan that suits you according to your condition and financial ability, and the final decision belongs to the patient. 2. Be perceptive about the concerns of the consultation process and the shame of seeking medical treatment. When you delay seeking medical treatment for any reason, reflect on whether it is because of your past unpleasant experiences with medical treatment, or whether you delay seeking medical treatment because you are concerned about the possibility of discrimination or prejudice in the future. You should also assess how much this emotion affects your medical behavior. 3. Use the Internet for consultation. Currently, using the Internet to get professional answers is probably the best way to solve problems. You don’t need to wait in line or worry about privacy issues, but the disadvantage is that the doctor can only get a description of your situation, and the doctor can only provide advice. After establishing contact with your doctor, you can go to the hospital if necessary.