China’s special national conditions, since the 1970s, the implementation of strict state policy of family planning, but with the changing times, a series of family and social problems brought about by the only child gradually emerged, the specific product of this particular period should also keep pace with the times, “separate two children” to let countless families who have long been looking forward to this The “separate second child” liberalization has made countless families who have long had this expectation smile and jump at the chance. However, the “importation of additional people” has always been a big deal in China, so young couples who are thinking about it may want to hold back their impulsive passion for a while and think calmly and thoughtfully about whether you are ready. After all, the birth of another child could change your life’s plans. Your body, your emotions, your time, your money. Are you ready to commit? How about emotionally and time-wise? Raising a child requires more commitment. If your career is stressful and you need to work long hours, you need to adjust your career plans and your child’s upbringing to whether you have enough time and energy. There is no doubt that a parent’s companionship for a child is irreplaceable by anyone else, and if you yourself also need more time to spend on entertainment and leisure, you need to think carefully. Especially if you have your own health problems, especially in the early years when babies and toddlers can consume a lot of your rest and sleep, and then there is the aspect of your family, are your own parents happy to accept another commitment? Perhaps the elderly also need to have their own more leisurely and enjoyable later years. If necessary, it would be wise to have a relaxed and democratic family meeting before conceiving again and listen to your elders’ opinions. How well prepared are you financially? Is your family well prepared financially? For example, it costs a lot of money for another pregnancy, childbirth, childcare, clothes, toys, education, medical care, etc., and you need to provide more material conditions for future education, training, and even housing. Are you physically ready to become a mother again? There is no doubt that from a purely medical point of view, the best number of children a woman should have in her life is 2-3, so as to protect the endometrium and reduce the incidence of endometrial cancer and breast cancer. But what is the reality? The cesarean rate in China has long exceeded 50% – the vast majority of which is due to human factors rather than medical necessity – and the inevitability of another pregnancy and delivery puts women at even more risk. The majority of hospitals in China still follow the medical principle of “once a cesarean, always a cesarean” for pregnant women who have had a cesarean delivery. To achieve the proper responsibility, which doctor would dare to risk the world? Since multiple cesarean sections are perfectly feasible in medical theory and clinical practice, the only way is to undergo another operation, and the risks and complications of the operation will increase exponentially, so women who are planning to have a second child should not easily “cut it off” if there is no medical evidence for the first child. The first one is the first one to be born without medical evidence, so don’t ignore the pain of childbirth, believe in the so-called “zodiac”, because of the purpose of future education 。。。。 The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the website and see if you can find a good reason why you need to have a cesarean section. In addition, even if there are no plans for a second child, there is a risk of scarring in case of contraceptive failure. This rare and serious complication has been on the rise in China in recent years. If it occurs, it can have extremely serious consequences. Is age an issue? According to the current age structure of women giving birth in hospital, most women are between 28-32 years old when they give birth to their first child, and women become advanced maternal age after 35 years old. You need to spend more time and energy to help conceive, and the mental stress after conception and the consequent examination and treatment during pregnancy may lead to many unexpected situations, so you need to listen more and cooperate with the doctor’s advice and arrangements, then, as a doctor’s advice is that you may need to appropriately advance the plan of your first child. It is also important to have regular medical checkups, including monitoring of liver and kidney functions, blood sugar and blood pressure, regular gynecological checkups, proper diet and exercise, as well as quitting smoking and drinking habits, before the age of 35. When everything is well conceived and prepared, your time, emotions, body, money family are all ready in place, then next, prepare with confidence to welcome your new family member!