The most important thing is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing. …… However, all the uncertainty comes from the unknown, when you know the reason why your child wakes up when you touch the bed, maybe you will be less anxious. Why do children wake up when they get into bed? A body tension Baby in the mother’s belly, the body is curled up in the womb, after birth, the baby’s body will maintain this “inertia”, like to sleep curled up in a small space, if lying flat on the big bed, but will make the baby difficult to adapt. Response: The fetus in the womb is curled up, so the newborn baby also like to sleep in this position, generally after 3 months, the body will relax a lot. Mom can usually let the baby lean over, gentle movements to help stretch the baby’s small arms and legs, to do baby touch, etc., so that the baby’s body to relax, which is more conducive to the baby to adapt to sleep in bed. In addition, compared to our usual bed, the crib space is more narrow, this feeling is similar to the feeling of being surrounded by the womb, so some babies in the crib, or even the stroller will sleep better, the mother can also try to let the baby sleep in the crib. The temperature and smell of the mother’s embrace can bring a great sense of security to the baby, especially for some high-demand babies, the attachment to the mother is greater, compared to the cold bed, the baby will naturally prefer to sleep in the mother’s embrace. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. Generally speaking, the more calm the mother can remain, the better for the baby to fall asleep quietly. Conversely, the more anxious the mother is, the more difficult it is for the baby to adapt to sleeping in bed; you can also put the mother’s pajamas next to the baby, the baby smells the mother’s scent and will sleep more sweetly (note that the pajamas should be removed after the baby is asleep to avoid accidents such as suffocation); if the weather is very cold and you can’t cover many quilts alone, you can use heaters such as heating fans to warm up the whole room. Third, the gastrointestinal system of children before half a year old is not well developed The mothers who have had children know that babies before half a year old often have overflow, flatulence, colic and other problems, this is because the gastrointestinal system of children before half a year old is not well developed, it is easy to have gastrointestinal discomfort and other problems. When there is discomfort in the stomach, the child sleeps half curled up in the mother’s arms, more comfortable than lying flat in bed, so the baby will like to sleep in the mother’s embrace. Response: Mom can feed the baby’s grandmother half an hour before bedtime, try to hold the baby vertically after drinking milk, let the baby’s head rest on the mother’s shoulder, pat the baby’s back upper back area with a hollow palm, about half an hour later, then put the baby to sleep; colic is a common problem for babies at this stage, on this point, pediatrician Cui Yutao believes that usually you can properly let the child lie on his or her back, the baby’s The stomach is compressed, which can relieve the discomfort of the intestines. If the problem of colic is more serious and has affected sleeping and eating milk, you can also give your baby simethicone oil under the guidance of a doctor, this drug can help the child to deflate, less intestinal flatulence, the chances of intestinal colic will be reduced accordingly. Fourth, in the light sleep stage adult sleep and divided into light sleep and deep sleep stage, put the same baby, if the baby has not entered the deep sleep stage to put him to bed to sleep, no wonder the baby will be awakened! Response: Generally speaking, it takes 20 minutes for the baby to enter the mature sleep stage. When you see the smile and twitching disappear from the baby’s face, the breathing is even and calm, and the whole body muscles are relaxed, the mother can try to put the baby to bed gently. If you want your baby to sleep well in bed, you can also try these methods! In addition to the methods mentioned above, the following points can also help mothers “free” hands, so that the baby has a good sleep: 1, the baby into bed, adults do not quickly leave, gently pat the baby’s back, or sitting next to the baby, to keep the skin contact, can make the baby feel more secure. 2, if the mother’s soothing does not work, the baby cries more and more, then you have to pick up the baby to see if the baby is hungry, cold, hot, or because of other problems. Do not force the baby to continue sleeping, this will instead make the baby more afraid of sleeping in bed. 3.Change your baby’s diaper in advance, the dry feeling can make your baby have better sleep quality. 4.Don’t deliberately block out all the light or lower the volume when your baby is napping during the day, so that your baby can better distinguish between day and night and will sleep better at night.