Dear friends, we have gone through 2014 together and have already greeted 2015. time passes unnoticed, happy people and families feel that time flies, and people and families with difficulties feel that days are like years. The relativity theory of physics is very appropriate and apt. But difficulties will be temporary for every person and family; the key is how we prevent and solve them. Maybe we do not have foresight, but we need to learn to know the rules to prevent it before it happens; maybe we feel stupid, but we can seriously precipitate the thick and thin; maybe we feel like they are not met, but we need to know when to strike to create opportunities for themselves. Maybe we blame God why others are always better than me? But we need to switch thinking, positive perception; may we feel why they pay so much, the harvest is so little, but we need to understand the way to reap the rewards in different forms, not just the point that we focus on. Long life, clouds, self-life, we need to understand ourselves, know others; need to develop our emotional intelligence, improve the adversity quotient; need to learn to think, learn the accurate positioning of life, learn to give up, learn to prepare the appropriate choice, learn to manage their own resources and time. As parents, we should know how to think differently, urgently need the urgent, give its needs, accurate positioning, to achieve the healthy growth of children. As a society, we should be more self-aware, accurate positioning, moderate choice, bright life —- which may need to learn a lifetime,…… wish each of us can accurately position to find their own happy life.