In home education, fathers are as important to the development of children as mothers. The father figure is an important beginning for children and adolescents to understand the world. Good personality traits of the father and deep, unconditional fatherly love contribute to the healthy development of the child’s character and psychology. Excessive interference of the father delays the psychological development of the child The father-child relationship, first of all, has a very important influence on the character development of the child. A father who interferes excessively delays the psychological development of his child, who is emotionally unstable, who shirks his responsibilities, who has little patience, and who is easily dependent and has no goals or aspirations. A father who is overly coddling and responsible for his children tends to make them capricious, petulant, impulsive, not independent, and lacking in creativity. A father who is overly caring leaves the child with a biased understanding of justice, prone to an overbearing personality, and unable to tolerate frustration. Fathers who are more likely to reject their children or scold them tend to make their children feel unaccepted, act more withdrawn, and are easily depressed. On the contrary, if the father has good personality traits and is able to communicate better and more effectively with the child, then this type of child is more likely to show good qualities such as bravery, confidence and strength. They are also more passionate and creative in life, especially for boys. For girls, on the other hand, it is easier to form a good perception of men, to be more decisive and confident, and optimistic in building relationships with others. Instead of being lonely and sensitive and having low self-esteem. This will make them happier in their future marital relationships. A good father-son relationship Fathers also influence the level of intellectual development of their children. Children are more likely to learn a broader knowledge from their fathers, more exploratory play, develop children’s hands-on and manipulative skills, enrich their imagination, thinking and creativity, and be more inquisitive and curious. A good father-son relationship or father-daughter relationship can be a good way to improve a child’s cognitive ability, academic performance and psychological development. Fathers have a greater impact on the intellectual development of boys. A father with a good character can enhance the intellectual level of his boys through his parenting. As an emotion as sublime and great as mother’s love, father’s love can also seriously affect the mental and physical health of a child. If the father can clearly make his child feel his love. The child’s psychological development is more balanced, and his emotional development is more stable. Where the girl is more thirsty for her father’s affection and emotionally dependent on him, and can make him feel safe and peculiarly protective from his father’s love of the opposite sex. When encountering frustration and confusion, they can feel that they will be cared for, loved, and also be able to seek help and solve problems in time when they occur. My father’s influence on children’s gendered development can sometimes be greater than that of the mother. Boys can develop their own gender characteristics as males by identifying with and imitating their father’s gender. Girls are able to gain a sense of security and a characteristic protective mentality in the company and care of their fathers, thus gaining references about the qualities of the opposite sex in their fathers. Conversely if the father is too weak or domineering in the family and the mother occupies a dominant position, then the girl will present some characteristics of the male gender. Boys, on the other hand, will show more feminine characteristics because their uniformity is affected. Therefore, each father should establish his own good image, so that the child can really feel the father’s love, unconscious inculcation, so that the son is more courageous, good ambition, and the heart of going in; and the daughter is more gentle, intelligent nature good.