Desire is like the sun, which rises again every day. When desire rises to its highest point, men and women need sex to quench their thirst. In the past, people simply sought a certain way to release the urge, and thus the traditional sexual position was created. But today, with the increasing demand for sex, monotonous, unchanging positions, can no longer meet the needs of the majority of people.
There are many records about sexual positions in Chinese folklore. There are more than 30 kinds of records in the ancient Chinese book “Medical Heart Formula”. If you want to cite the best position, 100 couples may have 100 answers, but all couples agree that some moderate changes in position, can improve sexual interest, so that both sides get a more satisfactory sex life.
Physical fatigue, suitable for side lying position
Male on female position: this is the most commonly used position. Women lying on their backs, men lying on their backs, with both knees, both elbows weight, to avoid all the weight added to the woman to limit its movement.
In this position, the male takes the lead and can adjust to the best conditions for both sides by opening or bringing together the lower limbs of the woman, which is also more conducive to stimulating the sensitive areas of the female clitoris and the outer 1/3 of the vagina. At the same time, this position is also the safest way to have sex.
Female on male position: the woman plays the leading role and can find the best feeling through the change of angle. It generally requires the man to lie on his back and legs, and the woman to sit on her knees on top of the man’s torso with her knees level with the man’s chest. The woman can either sit up straight or lie prone on top of the man so that both partners are in close contact.
This position can be taken when the woman cannot find the best feeling during sex, or when the man feels tired and weak. However, this is the position where penile injury is most likely to occur, and both parties must be aware of safety precautions to avoid injury caused by excessive intensity.
Side insertion: women use the right side of the bed, knees and legs; men facing the woman, lying between their legs. This is the most energy-saving position, when both sides feel fatigue or weakness can be used, and it is easy to master, the process of sex does not limit the activities of both sides, which is conducive to male control of ejaculation.
Rear entry: the woman is supported on the bed with her knees and chest and elbows, and the man faces the woman’s back and enters. This is the most commonly used position of intercourse before human evolution. It has the disadvantage of being under-stimulated or causing too much stimulation to the vagina. However, these disadvantages can be overcome by appropriate adjustments, such as the woman taking a kneeling position.
In addition, there is a need to correct the idea that the male penis should be thick and long in order to tighten the top of the “lotus” and make the woman enjoy the greatest pleasure. This is the outer third of the vagina and the clitoris, not the cervix as is commonly believed. It is clear that the clitoris is the one that should be tightly topped so that the woman can get more sexual stimulation. Therefore, the male penis does not need to be thick or long, just the right angle and strength.
To get pregnant, use special positions
Although all sexologists encourage people, to actively enjoy sex. But it is undeniable that sex does also take on the task of conceiving offspring. In this special moment, the sexual position requires some skills.
Hoping to get pregnant: it is advisable to use the male on female position with the woman’s buttocks cushioned, and after intercourse, the position should preferably be maintained for one hour, which facilitates the storage of semen in the posterior vaginal vault, which can especially improve the conception rate for women with a posterior uterus.
During pregnancy: During the first and last 3 months of pregnancy, sexual intercourse should not be practiced. In the middle 4 months, sex can be performed in a controlled manner using the female superior position, rear entry or male standing female lying.
In addition, for couples with a large difference in height and the elderly, the side-lying position can be used to reduce the pressure on both sides during sex; men who suffer from erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation and women who have a harder time reaching orgasm can consider the woman-on-top position.
5 variations of the traditional position
The “man-on-woman” position is arguably the oldest and most frequently used lovemaking position, but years of using this position for sex will inevitably feel boring. The famous American men’s magazine Askmen recently pointed out that, with a little improvement, this position can still bring couples a whole new level of pleasure. The following are some of the improvements listed by American sexologists.
Hammering. The woman lies flat on her back and rests her legs on the man’s shoulders. The man kneels and places his knees on the side of her waist. If needed, he can hold her thighs with both hands to keep her steady. This position makes it easy for the male to control the speed, depth and power of entry, but requires the woman’s limbs to be soft enough.
Cradle position. The male lies prone on top of the woman and rests her legs on his shoulders. The male supports the ground with both hands and enters slowly in a position similar to a push-up. This position requires the man to have some upper body strength so as not to put his full body weight on the woman.
Bicycle pose. This position requires more physical skill, but is also more pleasurable. The woman lies flat on her back with her right leg on the man’s right shoulder and her left leg bent and placed on his right side.
Golden Gate Bridge Pose. The woman lies flat on her back with a fluffy pillow under her shoulders. The male kneels between her legs, with his thighs at about 90 degrees to his calves, wraps his arms around her waist and slowly lifts. It is recommended that the male stab in with short blows, which are more likely to ignite the woman’s passion. In addition, the woman can hold the back of his thighs to bring their bodies closer together.
Hip alignment style. If a man wants his wife to be more active, he may want to try this position. When moving, try to keep their hip bones aligned together, which allows the root of the man’s penis to rub against the woman’s clitoris. Be careful to use an up-and-down reciprocal motion rather than the usual thrusting motion. At the same time, the legs of the two should be as straight as possible, side by side or folded together, or the woman can coil her legs over the man’s calves, which helps to enter more fully.
Safe sex is most important
Generally speaking, the position that is most natural and feels most comfortable is the best. If you want to try some new moves, it is important to ensure safety, especially for men. Because during erection, the cavernous body of the penis is filled with blood and the pressure in the cavernous body is elevated, the softness of the penis will be significantly reduced at this time, and injury will easily occur when subjected to improper external force.
Therefore, couples should remember the phrase: fresh is important, but can not hurt the body.