The complexity of the relationship between husband and wife is probably the highest in the current highly developed information society. In general, the more influences there are, the lower the intimacy of the relationship; the more friends (especially of the opposite sex) know about each other, the less conducive it is to the formation of a close relationship between the two. In a way, today’s couples’ relationship may also be the most fragile and superficial it has ever been. Of course, it would be better if there are higher qualities such as ideal temperament, broad-mindedness, rare confusion, looking at the mainstream regardless of the details, loyalty to the relationship and one’s earlier decisions, strong sense of responsibility to the other half, and so on. But it is not easy to develop these good qualities in today’s society. Many people are in the undesirable (and truly realistic) position of bumping into each other, arguing, continuing or getting out of dilemmas, or simply not daring to take a step forward in the relationship. The above is just some tedious preaching. In your case, face-to-face counseling and help from a regular professional psychiatrist can do something to facilitate, or at least release, some of the problems at the psychological level. For your information.