Since their own cold medicine to the child weaned a few days, after, as if holding a grudge like, on the milk is not pro, even if put in front of the eyes, but also no interest, but a small fleece blanket interest is increasing, every time to grasp in the hand, bite in the mouth, the night is a must-see. Secondly, if you take your child out to play, you will be envious of other children who are very pestered by their mothers, while your own baby is crawling around, only occasionally looking and searching for his mother, and enjoying himself very much. Understanding the “transitional object”, one of the seeming problems is not a problem. We imagine a small child was able to hold the mother’s breast every day to drink milk, a day suddenly does not appear, rather than slowly reduce the number of times, the panic brought about by the child is unimaginable, this loss, the sense of loss of control in the accidental contact with a similarly soft, smooth fleece blanket to get relief, but also vigorously rubbing scratching and biting it to re-experience the sense of control and security to ease the anxiety. Through this, the child transitions from the state of being one with his mother to finding himself and his mother as two separate individuals. Therefore, the transitional object helps the child to become independent. Understanding the “attachment theory”, the second is not a problem. There are three types of attachment: secure, avoidant, and defiant. Only in the secure mother-infant attachment relationship, the infant sees the mother as a secure base, and the mother’s presence makes the child feel safe enough to explore unfamiliar situations and grow in independence and support. It’s inevitable that moms will have to deal with their own narcissistic frustrations as they reap the rewards of their children’s independent growth, but what mother would reject such frustrations when she learns about them? So, you need to understand some psychology!