When you find or learn that your beloved child is lagging behind or different from normal children of the same age, every parent’s heart is equally uncomfortable, this mood may only be experienced by the person concerned, so here I would like to talk to parents from the heart. 1.Change your mindset. The child’s current problem, the child is right, and not intentionally caused by us. The cause of the world is studying the problem, science is currently making efforts but no clear results. We do not have to blame ourselves or feel unfortunate. Learn to have a good mood and a good mind. Do not be anxious. 2. Change the concept. The traditional way of parenting is not outdated, and the elderly in the family to negotiate, and start to find a new suitable parenting methods for their children. Or seek help from experts in this area. 3, understand the child’s behavior. In order to change your child, you must first understand your child correctly. Don’t make unreasonable guesses about your child, and don’t find all kinds of reasons for your child to do what you think is right and not let him do what is right or what he should do. It is very important to know and understand your child’s behavior and mood. 4. Change your approach. Do not satisfy your child as soon as possible. Every child is independent and they have the ability to explore the world and their surroundings independently, so don’t deprive your child of the freedom and developmental space he or she should have. Every child will have the natural ability to pay attention, and you should not replace his ability without thinking about it. Talk to your child gently, smile at him, praise him from your heart, give him loving touches and hugs, and play and interact with your child often. 5, must be firm confidence and courage. To have confidence in your child, have confidence in yourself, your efforts and results are directly proportional. The child has no progress to see how much you pay, but can not be overly ambitious. 6, the child’s own things to encourage children to complete their own. Parents should not save time and effort, all the things to help their children do, do not be afraid of annoyance, do not be afraid of children slow to believe that the child in your assistance and encouragement will be completed. So try to assist, do not replace. 7, parents should have their own principles. No matter how in the child tantrum, you should not be the child’s temper infected emotions, to learn to calm and ignore. 8, life self-care is very important. If the child has made great progress in other areas, his three meals a day, toileting, etc. or will not, then he reached twenty, thirty you then teach him these is not very likely, or you will say that the child will slowly grow up, of course there will be this possibility, but you are willing to risk that? Therefore, self-care ability should be trained from today. 9, if your child can not talk, you also have to talk to your child tirelessly. Treat your child as if he or she can talk in everyday life, because even if there is no language, you can’t say that he or she has no understanding. You give more, one day there will be a return. 10. Manage yourself first. Be a model to your child everywhere, have a regular life, and let your child learn from your example with visuals. To make your child social, you have to learn to adapt and obey from small things. For example, urination and defecation must go to the toilet, no matter where you take your child, you have to enter him to find the toilet to be able to urinate and defecate concept, from childhood to him to cultivate the habit, can help him grow up not to any time and any place regardless of shame, no concept to let others to accuse the child to urinate and defecate anywhere. An autistic child is also a human being, and you must educate him according to normal human behavior. Self-esteem is cultivated from a young age, even if the child does not understand, you as a parent must understand. 11, love and patience is the key. You must have the fortitude to press your own impulsive behavior. If you want your child to be a popular person, the tutoring you give your child is more important than any of the training. If you always smile at your children, they will imitate you to smile at others. If you know how to say “thank you” to those who have helped you, they will imitate you to learn to be grateful to others and to life. 12.Actively cooperate with the institution and personal trainer’s teaching. Communicate more with the teacher to understand your child’s situation, and also respond to the teacher in a timely manner about your child’s suspicious or unintelligible behavior and parenting style. Pay attention to the child’s changes and progress in life. Observe what your child likes and dislikes. Learn to keep daily records to understand your child’s changes. 13. Don’t believe that there is any panacea in this world, that is most effective for lazy people and developed for looting money, early detection, early intervention and early training. Rehabilitation is a long-term process, we change a person, not what product or project will have the end of the completion of the day, children will not, even normal children also need professional parenting methods. Remember training is a lifetime thing. There are no shortcuts. 14. Do your best and listen to God. Try your best will certainly be rewarded, but not will meet your expectations, do not carry illusions about the future. 15.Study more, read more, observe more, record more, ask for more advice. 16, the family should be united. Because you are the backbone of your child, your emotions, your thoughts, your behavior, your words, your family atmosphere will affect your child’s life. 17, a comprehensive and systematic intervention is the inevitable way to recovery. One-sided or only on a certain aspect of the emphasis on training such as language, sensory, etc. can not be equated with a comprehensive rehabilitation. 18, parents themselves should learn more and improve themselves. Do not rely too much on institutions, a long life, rely on institutions can be a few years, there are decades you have to use professional help children go on. 19, find the right physician, a clear assessment, to understand where the child’s problems, one by one problem with a plan to help and complete. 20.Hug for warmth. Find a place and a group of people you can talk to, and we can encourage and comfort each other to go on. 21.Learn the most advanced rehabilitation concepts on a regular basis, and be sunny and positive about life and the child’s days together.