Miss Lai, 25 years old, recently married a handsome guy, however, after a month of marriage honeymoon period has not yet passed, Miss Lai found that her young and strong husband always put off with their own “intimacy” for various reasons, even in Miss Lai strongly requested her husband reluctantly “give in” is also a “passing type” in a hurry. “Did he get tired of me so quickly? Or does he have another woman outside?” Miss Lai was puzzled by the depression. A recent study showed that among well-educated, healthy couples, 16 percent of men and 35 percent of women have sexual apathy. And among infertile couples, sexual frigidity accounted for 2 percent. Sexual frigidity refers to low or diminished libido, which can occur in both men and women, and has recently seen an increasing number of visits to male clinics as a result. A man’s masculinity is closely linked to his libido needs, so the appearance of sexual apathy is a very dangerous sign for men. There are many reasons why men are “sexually frigid,” and in addition to being partially caused by disease, diet and lifestyle can also cause more estrogen in men’s bodies, thus “eliminating male”. External factors: estrogen hidden “killing machine” In recent years, clinical practice found that many men’s body estrogen levels are getting higher and higher, some even 2-3 times higher than the normal value. This “status quo” has even formed a younger trend. “In the past, those who came to see sexual dysfunction or infertility were middle-aged and elderly people in their 40s and 50s, but now there are more and more young people in their 30s.” The estrogen in men’s bodies has increased so much, mainly related to environmental pollution, illegal food additives and a poor lifestyle. “Pesticides, fertilizers, various pesticides, plastics, rubber products, waste gas, waste residues, etc., these toxic and harmful substances are absorbed by crops, from poultry and livestock to accumulate to the human body. Since the chemical structure of these substances is very close to the structure of estrogen, the level of estrogen accumulated in the human body is also getting higher and higher.” In addition, many foods also contain harmful additives. For example, some unscrupulous breeders inject estrogen or take birth control pills to promote the rapid growth of snappers. Similarly, there are chickens, ducks, geese, fish and other animals. The more of these foods you eat, the more estrogen you will consume. It is also worth emphasizing that some cosmetic products designed for women contain a certain amount of estrogen, which can also damage male reproductive health with long-term use. Pathology: Diseases that make “sex drive” diminish Physical problems can make men’s sex drive decline, such as impotence. Some data show that 7% of young people suffer from impotence, and the rate increases with age, from 12% before the age of 40 to 18% between the ages of 50 and 59, rising to 25%-30% by the age of 60. Next are chronic conditions such as cancer and low blood pressure, while cardiovascular disease, hypertension and diabetes can also immediately make a person sexually uninterested due to slowing the flow of blood through the body (and also in the penis). There are other conditions such as thyroid or pituitary disorders (the pituitary gland controls the production of many hormones in the body, including sex hormones) that can lead to a loss of libido. In addition to this, age is one of the reasons that affects male sexual function. “As men age, their sexual desire becomes less and less demanding. This is the objective law of sexual aging. Especially after the age of 50, male genitalia gradually aging, the demand for sexual desire is lower, need to give appropriate care. Psychological: “sexual anxiety” can cause “disorders” due to the lack of knowledge about sex, because of the amount of masturbation or failure of sexual intercourse, etc., will cause the male gradually to sex life requirements reduced or completely lack. The couple’s relationship is not harmonious or sexual life is not harmonious are “danger signs”, fear of female pregnancy, childbirth, or incorrect view of sex, or because of sexual life mistakes, mental guilt, mental trauma, etc., will lead to the excitement of the sexual desire center of the cerebral cortex is inhibited. Almost one-third of men have problems with premature ejaculation, while one-fifth of men always worry about their performance in bed. The fear of poor performance in bed and ejaculation at orgasm coming too early (commonly known as premature ejaculation) creates operational anxiety. In addition work pressure and self-esteem are also a very important factor. Too many scruples can also cause sexual apathy. For the couple’s relationship, the night and day does not necessarily improve the quality of sex life, need to create some romance to increase sexual attraction. In many cases, often see familiar faces but will make the husband lose sexual interest, as they say, a small goodbye is better than a new marriage, usually the fire of desire is not because of the lack of meeting, but see too much. Behavior: lifestyle habits can also affect “sexual interest” in lifestyle habits, although alcohol can give rise to impulsive desire, but in fact it is more damage to a man’s sexuality, especially for those men who have long been alcoholics. “Excessive use of tobacco and alcohol. It is important to know that nicotine in cigarettes and alcohol in wine, after being absorbed by the body, inhibit the body from producing androgens and can block the pathway of nerve reflexes in sexual life, so that sexual function is reduced and sexual sensory disorders occur.” Therefore, men should eliminate bad habits, more exercise and less alcohol, less smoking or even non-smoking, which is very important to restore male sexual function, improve the quality of sexual life and physical health. “Some men go out in a car, into the door by elevator, work with a computer, usually less exercise. In addition to the fast pace of life, mental stress, the human body resistance is poor, all kinds of diseases will be high. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.