Newlywed couples experience a romantic period of love, will enter the marriage hall to mutual family life, because the role of both sides have just begun to change, and many newlywed couples involved in the house, there will always be such and such shyness and discomfort. Honeymoon period is the couple to stabilize the transition period of family life, but also the two sides of the good life of the integration period, safely through the honeymoon period is to maintain the basis of happy family life, it is crucial. So how can a newlywed couple safely and happily spend a warm and sweet honeymoon period? Men and women should do the following aspects: First, to have become a bride and groom of psychological preparation. Male big when married, female big when married, is everyone has to experience, both sides can successfully enter the marriage hall, is the love blossomed happy flowers. From now on both sides to jointly run their own small family, need to have common responsibilities and obligations of the psychological preparation, life should think differently from each other, what is the matter, what ideas, what are the difficulties, and more open to each other more communication, face together. At the same time, the groom should learn to live in harmony with the bride’s parents and family, the bride should also be adapted to live in harmony with the groom’s parents and family, as soon as possible to complete the role of son-in-law and daughter-in-law to change, and better integrated into each other’s family life and interpersonal relationships. Second, establish a healthy concept of sex, enjoy a pleasant and harmonious sex life. Most of the newly married couples are involved in sex for the first time, each other there is a sense of shyness, at the same time, sex is essential to a normal couple’s life, is to maintain the relationship between the two sides of the bond, to be treated in an ordinary ordinary heart, set up a healthy sexual concept, sex can not only make both sides of the mind happy, increase each other’s feelings, or the need to reproduce offspring. Newly married couples lack of understanding of sexual knowledge, there are many doubts. Especially the woman usually may hear the first time sex is very painful, and fear; male due to excessive fear of causing pain and discomfort of the woman, and can not relax to complete the sex life, which is likely to lead to sexual failure, to both psychological shadow. Therefore, both sides in the honeymoon period or need to take the time to learn more about some sexual knowledge, the first time sex, the man should take the initiative, but not rough, to their wives should be more caressing, more caring, to do the watercourse. Women should also be considerate and gentle, actively cooperate with the groom to complete the sex life, even if not completed, the two sides can not complain to each other, but to encourage each other, the bride should be more generous. If you can’t have sex for a few days in a row, you can go to a professional medical institution for consultation and complete the process under the guidance of a professional doctor. Can be successful and comfortable sex life, because the newlyweds are relatively strong sexual desire, especially the male sex drive is particularly strong, the frequency of coitus is relatively high, and sometimes even a night coitus several times, which requires good stamina and energy, at first due to the energy and stamina are relatively strong, the frequency of coitus can be increased appropriately, but it is best not to more than three times a day, and slowly transitioned to 4-5 times a week coitus, the regularity of sexual life, both due to the energy and physical strength, the frequency of coitus can increase, but not more than three times a day. Regular sex life, at the same time due to the rich sexual experience of both sides, the two sides can communicate on sex, get rid of the shyness, close cooperation to complete a high-quality sex life, is conducive to the physical and mental health of both sides, both sides can be more pleasurable to enjoy sex, to enjoy the happiness of the newlyweds. Third, maintain sexual hygiene. Newlywed couples in the honeymoon period to fully enjoy sex at the same time, must pay attention to sexual hygiene, both sides need to bathe before coitus, wash the external genitalia, can not be due to impulse, and not bathing and eager coitus, which is easy to cause both sides of the infection, resulting in vaginitis, pericarpal glansitis and urethritis. Because the female urethra is shorter, if you do not pay attention to hygiene, especially easy to cause “honeymoon cystitis”. Now are popular travel honeymoon, living in the hotel hotel hygiene conditions are difficult to determine, pay more attention to sexual hygiene. In addition, if the honeymoon period, the woman came “vacation”, the woman is more likely to be infected, should be prohibited intercourse, the man should put more energy to considerate care of their brides. Fourth, adequate rest and good diet. As the newlyweds need to prepare for the banquet and a variety of entertainment, the bride and groom will feel particularly tired, frequent sex will also consume a lot of physical strength, especially the groom. Coupled with the fact that most people choose to travel for their honeymoon, the fatigue of the journey is inevitable, and it is important to pay attention to rest, reserve sufficient physical strength for a romantic and warm honeymoon, and maintain good energy. Otherwise tired, will certainly affect the two sides of the honeymoon passion and mood. Both sides to maintain sufficient physical strength and good energy, not to mention the possibility of having to conceive a “little baby”, a good diet is essential, nutritional allocation to be adequate, need to supplement sufficient protein such as lean meat, fish and shrimp, poultry eggs and soy products, and a variety of vitamins such as green leafy vegetables, fresh fruit and animal liver, vegetable oils, etc., in addition to both sides! In addition, both sides should quit smoking and drinking. In short, the honeymoon is the bride and groom the beginning of a happy life, but also the beginning of love, love, sex, as a woman’s love for men, as men love women, mutual understanding, heartfelt communication, will certainly play a beautiful life of music.