Western medicine has found the “disease”, its intuitive, conclusive, concise, single, leading to the “disease” must be removed first and then quickly. The formation of human dependence on medical technology, medical technology has gradually become the shell of human survival. Western medicine has solved some of the problems that are difficult to be solved by TCM due to the lack of means, and at the same time, it also provides a number of sources of diseases for TCM. Due to the promotion of competition, consumption and the so-called high quality of life, many people arrange their lives in such a way that they think they are “enjoying” their bodies and “pleasing” their spirits, but they do not know that they are destroying their bodies and spirits. Just as enjoying fine food is not necessarily good for the stomach. People fundamentally choose an incorrect way of life, this kind of disease caused by lifestyle, Western medicine to give regular “maintenance” and “overhaul”, this kind of high-tech support of the wrong way of life, can not be because of its current support, we will be This wrong way of life supported by high technology cannot be presumed to be able to last forever just because it can still be supported at present. Routine medical check-ups are interpreted as overhauls of machines. Once illnesses are detected, even minor illnesses will be overhauled, and the treatment of illnesses will become a project. During a medical checkup, people who do not feel unwell can be found to have stones, fatty liver, lumps and so on. I was a bit scared of this kind of medical checkup. Whenever I had a medical checkup, I prayed that all the “diseases” would be on me and not on my friends. When people laugh and ask me why, I say I am afraid that you are going to start the “cure” program again. Some of my friends are just looking for diseases all day long, finding diseases and then curing them, and then causing diseases, and so on and so forth, which has become an important part of their lives. When I went to pick up my labs, I saw a woman crying with her labs, saying that she had cancer. I handed her my labs and it said the same thing. We all know we’re going to die, but do we cry every day about it? We don’t seem to be able to accept death naturally anymore, treating it as something scary and hard to accept. It’s as if death is external, a robber, coming to prey on and rape us. It makes us go up to the hospital to visit the sick as if we were drawing a line in the sand with the class enemy, especially when we visit the terminally ill, and we either don’t face up to the reality of the situation, or we show our grief with impunity. This reminds me of my friend who died of hunger strike after his palate was surgically removed, and who wrote to me, “Let me die in peace”. It also reminds me of my mother’s teacher, a family of more than ten, each doing their own thing, my mother quietly chasing away flies for her teacher, who died in peace. Compared to Bakhtin, how happy was my mother’s teacher? Many living people talk about death, in fact, healthy people talk about death is not death at all, life and death are two very different existences. Life and death are two very different things. One of my leaders used to like to lead the team members to the cemetery to hold a team meeting. At first, the effect is very good, sitting in the middle of the tombstone, the relationship between people at once pure, controversy no longer, divergence you close, the problem is solved. But later, our leaders do not go to the cemetery to open the team meeting. He said, nonsense, a car back, unloading the problem like your pet dog, and you jumped on the car back. Living problems can’t be fought off with death. A coworker of mine died of liver cancer. I consider him a hero. He was usually a cautious person who could be lectured by someone he didn’t know, but I was in awe of the calmness he showed about his illness. A few of our friends treated him to a meal of his usual favorite, dog soup. I made it myself, a whole dog, which would have been the last thing I would have done, and people bullied me into not being able to say no at this point. He said he also feared death. When it was late at night, when he was alone with death, fear made him shiver and cry. But when the sun came up, he knew that this day he was alive, and he was going to live it as if he were alive, so he went to work, and he still treated his pain as if it were his usual stomach ache, and he still joked with us as he usually did. When he died, we all went up to the crematorium to see him off. Another colleague of mine had lung cancer. He showed us the diagnosis one by one. One of my colleagues said, “Well, it’s not bad.” He got angry and said, “It’s not bad. He got angry and said, “Not bad? Imagine how you’d feel if it wasn’t me but you?” When it was my turn to receive the diagnosis, I imagined it was me. It felt like getting a notice of exile ……. Sending him up to the crematorium was on the morning of New Year’s Eve. It was almost noon when we got back. Everyone rushed home. But I received a call from the leadership, said the deceased’s wife stood at the funeral banquet to cry which, no one to go. It was then that I remembered there was such a thing as a funeral banquet, and rushed to the banquet again, throwing aside the preparations for the New Year’s Eve banquet at home, and in my heart I could not help but say with indignation, “It’s so troublesome to be alive.” We simply don’t give ourselves the opportunity to feel, experience, understand, and adapt to our own lives; we leave our lives in the hands of doctors who decide what to do with them. We have fallen short in experiencing life in so many ways that what we have is fragmented and incomplete. There are many reasons why modern people give their lives away, but these reasons that are supposed to make us happy are not excused by life itself. Modern people’s depression, anxiety, compulsion, emptiness, and loss are not just bad emotional reflections, but real lack of life. The sad thing is that people can’t close their eyes until they die, but they don’t know what they really lack, just like an eagle, tiger, or wolf born in a zoo, who feels a call in the dark, but doesn’t know what that call really means until he dies. Animals in the zoo can enjoy the fruits of modern civilization, do not worry about food, can be free from the plague of natural enemies, can enjoy their old age, that is to say, they have a lot of ironclad reasons for happiness. But do they feel happiness? People are always creating more reasons to be happy, but are you happy when you have so many reasons to be happy? Reasons can momentarily deceive the surface of consciousness, but they cannot deceive life for long. Just as morality can restrain people for a time but cannot resist them for a lifetime. As a result, modern man has developed many modern “diseases”. People take for granted that the primitive state of existence is inferior and foolish, just as we think that the quality of life of animals in zoos is higher than that of wild animals. Our solution to anxiety, tension, emptiness and other psychological symptoms is to find the “cause of the disease”, the cause of the disease, in Freud, Jung and other psychologists that is often a matter of unraveling the cause of the disease, the disease will be cured, and did not think that this is the cause of the way we live. The tigers and lions in the zoo are constantly having problems, and people are looking for all kinds of reasons, such as lack of calcium, lack of iron, lack of zinc, and how to cure them, the beasts in the zoo are deteriorating as a whole. If you look at the whole picture, it is not difficult to see the problem. When I gave birth to my child, I bought two thick books, one written by the Japanese “Encyclopedia of Parenting” and the other written by the Americans “The Complete Book of Parenting”, which I called “East is poisonous and West is evil”. I asked my friend who had a baby with me, “Which one do you use?” She took the one written by an American, and she said she wanted scientific parenting. So, according to the book, she fed her child formula every four hours, and in between, she did not feed or hold her child even if he cried, saying that it was to develop the habit of opening the meal according to the meal, according to the amount of the meal. Let the child sleep in a single bed, is to cultivate independence, let the child cry can increase lung breathing ……. Instead, my book, written by a Japanese, makes breastfeeding, makes holding the child all the time, makes the child take milk at any time, to fall asleep with the child in my arms, and to let the child contain the milk …… just like the animals in Animal Crossing. When the child can eat, I follow the book, change the way to get food for the child, but also to mobilize the neighbors to support my food development. My friend, however, like the West, eat simple, but give the child according to the book to add is what nutrients, vitamin pills, calcium tablets ……. Two children grew up, my child was oriental from the inside out, her child did not resemble a western child. Now, her child, again, has Nephrotic Syndrome. I was very anxious and looked for the Chinese medicine practitioner who could do a good job. But my friend, who is a believer in Western medicine, said that now that the lab tests are no longer showing a plus sign, that is a good thing. I said, you use such a large amount of hormone maintenance, and so recurring disease, how is this a good? Use western medicine to save the emergency, and then use Chinese medicine to treat the root cause. But she didn’t think too much of it, thinking that the big deal was to get a new kidney. I really admire today’s people, take removing or replacing a kidney as a trivial matter. So they do harm to their own bodies without any worries. I pity this child, but her mother thinks the child is very happy because she has good reasons to be happy. But my daughter understands how I feel, and she knows that this child’s reasons for happiness have nothing to do with happiness. With that said there is no avoiding the mental illnesses that exist worldwide. Since we just follow the logic to find the cause of the disease, treat the headache, treat the foot, and passively follow the patient, we appear to be curing the disease, but in essence, we are causing the disease. Some years ago, my mother-in-law often announced to her children that she was rich and would go to a nursing home in her old age without being supported by her children, and that life in a nursing home was the happiest. After saying this several times, I secretly told her not to say this in the future. I said that filial piety is also like party spirit, which has to be cultivated and educated regularly. If you keep saying that you don’t need to be supported by your children, the filial piety string in their minds will be loosened. If you don’t go to a nursing home when you get old, your children won’t be able to accept it. Besides, is the nursing home really that good? When people get old, who has no personality, characteristics? Who can tolerate them when they are together, when they meet each other? Conflicts, anger, is not it? Even if you make a few friends, they are all old people, one died today, one tomorrow, this emotional torture is not? The best place for the elderly to retire is in the family, there are old and young family, the joy of family is the joy of human life in old age. After hearing this, my mother-in-law never said she would go to a nursing home again. A friend of mine who is a lawyer. She is an open, outgoing and bright woman who reacts violently to the thought of menopause. She cries when she says she will cry, and she cries a lot. Sometimes in court, the presiding judge announced the opening of the court, she said, wait a minute, go out to the corridor a cry, and then dry your face and then go into the court. The wife of a colleague, also menopausal, daytime curtains blocked tightly, day after day sitting in the dark and sulking. In order to save these suffering women, we have thought of many ways. Take pills, all kinds of pills. Going on trips, meeting friends ……. After a while I asked my lawyer friend: still crying? She said, No more crying. I was very happy, said, this is good, she said, good what good, I want to jump off the building. This reminds me of Deng Yingchao, whose menopause was very sad. It used to be said that women’s menopausal reaction was due to women’s unenlightened mind and little experience. Deng Yingchao went through the Long March and was by the side of the Premier. What had she not seen before? And she had the best medical conditions. So, it’s not that.