Because masturbation is always a handful, and many people consider masturbation to be a licentious act, masturbation has a very graphic and obscene name of “masturbation”. For reasons of faith, religion or “health”, masturbation is often considered an abomination. The hand used for masturbation is jokingly referred to as the “five-fingered girl” on the internet, and every man has two lovely “five-fingered girls” and every woman has two considerate “five-fingered students”. In the ancient times, the art of room even advocated the ridiculous proposition of not ejaculating, returning the essence to the brain, picking the yin to make up for the yang, etc. Over time, people regarded the essence as an extremely precious substance, and there was the saying “a drop of essence, ten drops of blood”. Traditionally, semen includes tangible and invisible semen, congenital and acquired semen, not just semen. The amount of semen that can be discharged is usually only a few milliliters each time, and even if one drop of semen is really equivalent to ten drops of blood, the amount of blood lost through semen discharge is insignificant to the body. Traditionally, it is believed that the ways to lose sperm include indulgence in sexual intercourse, seminal emission and masturbation (masturbation), with the latter being particularly important. The Taoist practice of not ejaculating and the Buddhist practice of vegetarianism and abstinence from sex are incompatible with masturbation and sperm discharge. 2, the traditional Western understanding of masturbation Catholicism, Christianity opposes masturbation, and even believes that sex without the purpose of procreation is sinful, immoral, and should be condemned. Homosexuality, primitive contraception, etc., are contrary to the purpose of procreation and are equally sinful and unforgivable. Some scholars and doctors, such as Sigmund Freud, also believe that masturbation can cause serious mental and physical illness and even death, and the 1976 Roman Catholic Conference issued a “Statement on Sexual Ethics” on premarital sex, masturbation and homosexuality, emphasizing that “masturbation constitutes a major moral …… masturbation is an inherently serious disorder”. In order to treat and correct masturbation, scholars have invented oatmeal as a treatment for masturbation, argued that eating more vegetarian food and less meat would reduce sexual desire, and used moral admonition, water therapy, circumcision, chastity belts, and even the extreme method of castration. And the most representative and authoritative contrary opinion, is the view of the United States Committee on Sexual Knowledge and Sex Education: “Masturbation is a normal, natural and make all people can get good fun skills, is essentially purely private nature of the behavior.” 3. Is masturbation really a cardinal sin? The reality is that many people do suffer from the extreme pain and physical and mental discomfort caused by masturbation, and often patients tell me with a sad face that he has had masturbation, which now leads to mental depression, lumbar weakness, easy tension, insomnia and dreaminess, and even poor erection, prostatitis, failure to have children, and so on. I met a patient, male, 22 years old, said 15 years old often masturbate, an average of 3-4 times a week for 3 years, and then saw online that masturbation can lead to kidney deficiency, poor sexual function, prostatitis, so a lot of tension, emergency abstinence from masturbation, but then anxiety, insomnia, frequent urination, dripping white, etc., this 4 years since the doctor everywhere, delayed school, to the family increased a great economic and mental burden, but also I don’t dare to find a girlfriend, afraid that I will delay others in the future. This is a typical psychological problem caused by the inability to understand masturbation correctly. Long-term remorse, anxiety and guilt can cause serious physical and mental discomfort. In fact, masturbation is a private sex in personal space for, is only one person can live a sexual life. If you suddenly stop ejaculating, you will also ejaculate after a long time, and there will be the physiological phenomenon of dripping white and other full then overflowing. If you can get it right in the first place, you will not experience the above discomfort. Masturbation in some people can indeed lead to a range of physical and mental discomfort, but most of this is not due to masturbation itself, but to the worries caused by it. Masturbation in moderation is beneficial and moderation is very important here. As long as you do not feel tired the next day, you are not overdoing it. For those who think they are masturbating too much, it is advisable to add some other pleasures to their lives, spend more energy on study and work, and divert their attention so that they can reduce it appropriately. For those who do not have a sexual partner, masturbation can reduce sexual stress, relieve sexual tension and release sexual impulses. All human organs are used into the waste, not using the brain will become more and more sluggish, not walking will be the lower limbs atrophy, sexual organs for a long time do not think how to use. It has been observed that men who never know what masturbation is, tend to have low libido and insufficient frequency of sex life after marriage; women have sexual arousal disorder and difficulty in reaching orgasm. I wish those who have been blaming themselves for masturbation and find it difficult to extricate themselves, don’t give too much burden to masturbation. The “five-fingered girl” and “five-fingered gentleman” are really not so evil, and sometimes even very cute. May young people have a carefree and happy life, and may middle-aged and old people have a long and blessed life, pray!