Sexual literacy (“Information for men and women”) [General principles
1. human sex is happy, sex with love is sex, the opposite is equivalent to animal mating, but sex only belongs to marriage, “non-marital sex is the beginning of sexual indulgence”, any sex outside the family is a serious betrayal of family and loved ones.
2. One-night stands are by no means ethical, and indulgent sex is a breeding ground for STDs and Aids. You have the guts to be unethical and unethical, but you certainly won’t be gambling with your life. Ding Shaoyun, Department of Urology, Shizuishan Third People’s Hospital
3. Don’t believe in the theory of condom’s omnipotence, because the confident and smart Americans have caused the crazy spread of AIDS on American soil because of their excessive belief in the role of condom.
4. Harmonious sex life is an indispensable part of a happy marriage, but be careful not to indulge in it, and be careful that it hurts your body.
5. “Sex”, in many cases, means family commitment, responsibility; please consider this carefully before you are sure you can carry enough weight on your shoulders.
6. Before sex, please carefully consider whether you should contraception, and not just think about how to be more happy; otherwise, the days after the pleasure, there will be unbearable pain and suffering.
7. Four notes for first time sex: shower – soft movements – appropriate place – attention to hygiene – contraception.
8. Before you are ready to start your sexual journey, please reserve enough knowledge about sex! Only then, STDs, AIDS, unwanted pregnancy and other terrible bitter consequences will not happen!
9. Women never forget their first man, if any of the brother heartlessly hurt a pure angel, waiting for their own will be a lifetime of guilt and all kinds of bad luck.
10. By the way, remind all brothers and sisters on the topic of conscience: sex with minors under the age of 18, whether the girl or boy consent or not, is a violation of the Constitution of the People’s Republic of China.
About virginity/virginity
11. The hymen is just a fragile layer of epithelial connective tissue; the first sexual intercourse did not see red, that’s normal. There are many reasons other than sexual intercourse that can cause a hymen to break.
12. Women’s nipples and labia are dark, which is the result of pigmentation and has nothing to do with being a virgin.
13. Do not try to judge a girl’s virginity from her physical appearance, any such method has no scientific basis, and even professional doctors sometimes have no way to determine whether a girl is a virgin or not.
14. Although there are no obvious physical characteristics to identify virginity, but it is not really impossible to distinguish the true from the false, whether men or women, some things once lost will never come back.
15. If you are unfortunate enough to have had sex with another man or woman before marriage, overdraft happiness, you will therefore lose the opportunity to choose happiness, because all men or women have a strong virginity complex deep in their hearts!
[About contraception
16. The safe period is not necessarily safe, women have multiple ovulations in a menstrual cycle, which has been written into the textbooks.
17. yuting is not a panacea, not a lifesaver; cherish life! Cherish your health! Be careful with Yuktin! (Note: Yuktin belongs to the oral contraceptive class of non-prescription drugs)
After taking Yuktin, it may lead to menstrual disorders in the following months, and may cause irregular vaginal bleeding during non-menstrual periods; and, this is only a small external manifestation of the side effects of Yuktin.
19. Condoms are also called condoms, please note! Americans are the ones who are overly convinced of the usefulness of condoms, which has led to the spread of the dreaded AIDS on American soil! Of course, the role of condoms in preventing unwanted pregnancies is indisputable.
20. Condoms are available in large supermarkets, drugstores, etc.; you should use good quality condoms, not just buy poor quality for cheap; you should also pay attention to the correct method of use.
21. Do not say that with a condom sex like wearing a raincoat bath as uncomfortable, let their own woman long time to take the pill is to let her chronic self-harm.
The current level of medical science, any kind of oral contraceptive pills have great side effects.
23. In vitro ejaculation is very unsafe: there is often a small amount of semen coming out during sex, and it is not easy for men to control the action when they reach orgasm.
24. The contraceptive ring is not suitable for unmarried and infertile women and is not recommended; similarly, vasectomy is not suitable for unmarried and infertile men.
25. For unmarried men and women, of course, condoms. But special attention should be paid to the method of condom use. For those who have children, the best contraceptive method is definitely female tubal ligation or male vasectomy, which is a once-and-for-all solution.
Are you pregnant?
26. If your period has come, it is a good indication that you are not pregnant. (Of course, a small amount of vaginal bleeding may also occur after pregnancy, but it is easy to tell from the appearance and clearly distinguishes it from menstruation)
27. If your period is overdue after risky (potentially pregnancy-inducing) sexual activity, check immediately with an early pregnancy test (or go directly to the hospital). The test can be used to check for pregnancy on the day when your period starts to be delayed; in case of pregnancy, the hcG value in the urine will reach its peak at this time; pay attention to the correct method of use, and preferably use morning urine.
28. For women who usually have regular menstruation, it is very normal to have a delayed or early menstruation within 7 days once in a while, because there are many factors affecting women’s menstruation (such as weather, diet, emotions, physical condition, etc.); this delayed or extended time frame usually does not exceed 14 days.
29. If menstruation has been delayed for more than 14 days without coming, then please go to the hospital for a systematic examination to avoid any unexpected situation, regardless of the test paper test results.
30. Early pregnancy reactions such as nausea, vomiting and anorexia are usually possible only after 5-6 weeks after pregnancy (that is, at least 8 weeks after menopause); do not make wild guesses because of this, and please remember to use early pregnancy test paper.
[Sexual hygiene/sexual health
31. Circumcision is an important cause of penile cancer in men and cervical cancer in their spouses; this is the reason why men with circumcision and phimosis are recommended to have their foreskin removed.
32. Please pay attention to the cleanliness and hygiene of the vulva, which should be washed frequently in general, and both men and women must go to take a bath before making love.
33. The female vagina has a strong self-cleaning ability, so please do not abuse vaginal lotions unless prescribed by your doctor. (Except for vulva lotion)
34. Using pads is not the best choice; choosing cotton underwear and changing underwear regularly is more conducive to the cleanliness and hygiene of women’s vulva.
35. Women should pay close attention to the changes in the leucorrhoea; if there are obvious changes in odor, color and sex, gynecological inflammation should be suspected, please go to the hospital for examination and treatment as soon as possible; self-medication may delay the treatment and may aggravate the symptoms.
36. symptoms such as backache and back pain after sex, indicating excessive physical exertion, should pay more attention to rest; this is the most basic requirement of sexual health care! Measure your strength.
37. Sexual psychological health is also an aspect worthy of attention; if you find yourself with a sexual psychological disorder, you should consult a professional psychologist as soon as possible.
38. Should not rely too much on sexual fantasy to achieve sexual satisfaction, because excessive sexual fantasy will affect normal work and study.
39. Sexual deviation (such as fetish, voyeurism, homosexuality, etc.) is a psychological disease and needs systematic psychological treatment.
40. The healthy performance of sex psychology and sex physiology can bring people full of vitality; facing up to their sexual needs, pursuing sexual health and healthy and normal couple life is a behavior that should be promoted, not something “embarrassing”.
About abortion
41. Whether it is abortion, medical abortion or painless abortion, in a sense, it is a great destruction of women’s physical and mental health; the weight of life, can you bear it?
42. Abortion should be performed within 14 weeks of pregnancy; if it is more than 14 weeks, only the more painful and terrible induction of labor can be done.
43. Medical abortions should be performed within 49 days of pregnancy; they can result in incomplete abortions, which require more painful scraping.
44. Multiple abortions (whether abortion or medical abortion) can thin the uterine wall and cause infertility or habitual miscarriage, as well as many gynecological diseases.
45. After abortion, menstruation usually resumes in 30-40 days; after abortion, you should follow the doctor’s advice and go to the hospital for a review on time.
46. If you are unfortunate enough to have just had a miscarriage, sex is absolutely forbidden for one month!
47. Whether it is abortion or medical abortion, the consequences are very terrible, so we advise you to prevent accidents no matter what.
48. The “painless abortion” procedure, which is widely carried out at present, can reduce to a certain extent the pain brought to women at the moment of surgery; but that is only painless, and all the “terrible consequences” arising from the “abortion” are All the “terrible consequences” arising from “abortion” are exactly the same!
49. The abortion procedure inevitably leaves the woman’s body with many terrible sequelae and great psychological trauma.
There is no reason to forgive a great mother for killing her unborn child.
[Pregnancy/Baby].
51. The best time to conceive is for the couple to get enough energy first and choose a windy and beautiful day to have intercourse!
52. During the first and second trimesters of pregnancy, sex should be “absolutely” forbidden, for the sake of your beloved wife and the baby in your womb.
53. Throughout pregnancy, you should pay attention to a proper diet, proper activity, adequate rest, and not to take any medication.
54. During pregnancy, parents should do more good deeds that can make them feel happy and comforted. Couples who do a good job in fetal education will surely get the best children.
55. Nursing mothers who are often angry are undoubtedly a big killer of their babies, because both Chinese and Western medicine have found that the mother’s milk after being angry can produce terrible toxins that can make the baby sick and cause death in serious cases.
The sex is as I want it to be
56. Couples sex, the most fatal is to forget to lock the door …… the most irresponsible is to let your children see or hear …… the most humiliating is to let your parents see or hear …… the most embarrassing is for your friends to see or hear ……
57. No one is born to be a master of sex, only with the partner slowly grinding, practice, your sexual happiness will be perfect every day.
58. go out to travel to remember both sides to bring ID cards, to avoid being caught by the police to say unclear ^_^ (this one is not so strict now!)
59. Couples sex must seek the consent of their partners, and, to pay attention to safety, health.
60. “Sex” is a way for couples to express their love to each other, and is a special bridge for couples to feel each other’s favor.
61. Sex can try other ways that do not affect the rest of the neighbors and the surrounding environment.
62. Wife’s sexual interest is the need for the husband to cultivate, slowly you will take her into the mysterious garden of sex.
63. Don’t force yourself when you don’t want to; likewise don’t force each other. Only both sides are actively and enthusiastically involved, so that the sex has vitality.
64. Although semen is non-toxic, but if swallowed into the mouth will also cause psychological imbalance. (Because couples have to respect and love each other to produce a harmonious marriage and sexual happiness)
65.^_^ Not much to say, sex is what I want it to be! So, the way that suits you is the best way; but remember, what goes around comes around, there is no pleasure in playing too much, instead it will cause physical and mental angst and pain!