Most parents believe that they are devoted to their children and hope that their children’s achievements will meet their expectations. However, when parents are looking for their children to become a dragon and a phoenix, do they find that their children are slowly growing sad? Nowadays, children live a single life, lack of emotional experience, lack of passion for life and enthusiasm for learning. They are cold to their relatives, indifferent to others except in the network in the passionate flight, in the peer play entertainment, everything else is ignored, indifferent. However, it is obviously unreasonable to blame children for all the causes of their emotional indifference nowadays. So what exactly is causing children’s emotional indifference? In fact, children’s emotional indifference is basically caused by the current social environment, the education system and the parents’ mentality and concept of expecting their children to be successful. Modern city people are always busy with work as an excuse to ignore the education of children, some parents simply send their children back home to save time, until school to pick up; some although the children around, but most are raised by the elderly or nannies, their own time to communicate and play with children is very little. While the temptation of the network world is approaching the child, in the child’s most need for emotional development, parents are excused for various reasons, resulting in the child in the virtual world to find emotional comfort and identity, so the child’s emotional indifference is also inevitable. In today’s competitive world, many adults only pay attention to the cultivation of children’s abilities, but neglect the cultivation of emotional intelligence, which is a dangerous tendency. On the other hand, most of the children nowadays are only children, parents are extra precious, let the children get ahead has become the starting point of most parents education children and landing point. Children have been forced to enroll in various interest classes and special classes since they were young, and scores have become the ultimate goal for children to pursue, and grades have become the standard for measuring everything for children. As long as the score goes up parents are willing to pay everything, no matter what happens at home, parents are their own bear, hidden from the child, in order to not let the child distracted, not to affect learning. However, the result of this is that the child is knowledge increased, but the emotions weakened; grades improved, but emotional indifference; scores increased, but the lack of compassion. Not knowing worry, no passion, lack of responsibility.