We should be very familiar with the theory of the short plank of a wooden barrel, which means that the amount of water in a wooden barrel does not lie in the longest plank, but in the shortest one. We have been emphasizing the need to repair the shortest plank in order to achieve the best state, that is to say, to make up for the shortcomings or to avoid the shortcomings of the strengths, may allow us to always adhere to. Why don’t we look at it in a different way? Why must we build on our strengths or avoid our weaknesses? Nothing is perfect, such as human life, is flawed, men lack the physiological structure of women, the same women do not have some of the structure of men, we can not be perfect, anyone, anything has its own shortcomings, we will ask to make up for the shortcomings or to avoid the shortcomings of the strengths of this is a very good idea, but we can not be like this ah, why do not we change a Why don’t we get another barrel to hold the water? It’s not like we only have that one barrel. We can use the defective barrel as a decoration, so that it can reflect its own greater value. Because no matter how you fix it, it’s still a defective barrel, but as an ornament, it’s a different kind of beauty. The same reason, we all have imperfections, we always go to great lengths to make up for, in the end is not necessarily very satisfied. Why don’t we seize our own flash point, let it continue to flourish, shine all the way? This is more beautiful than always trying to forcefully repair their own defects, and in the end is still the heart of the repair after the twist!