A netizen online post to me said: life’s first sex life, due to nervousness has not gone in on the leakage, and since then there is a shadow in the heart, behind the back of the penis is hard, a see his girlfriend on the soft. I joked to him: your girlfriend is too tough, see you scared, you can not stand up to be a man? A lot of men’s first time will be such a situation, like riding a bicycle, no one went up to ride a very sophisticated, all need a learning and honing process, and this process requires mutual cooperation between sexual partners, need to help on the car, send a ride. The first time a man is not satisfied with the sex life is very normal, as a wife should understand and sympathize, can not complain or even ridicule, you should enjoy that “astringent” (at least say, your man’s first time is your ah), long “ripening can produce skill,” natural Harmony and fulfillment.