There are many reasons for sexual dysfunction, there are physiological reasons, psychological reasons, it can also be the influence of diseases, and it is even also affected by factors such as economic conditions and living environment. From Ms. He’s letter, it seems that her husband’s erectile function is basically normal, it may be the influence of chronic prostatitis and other diseases, but we can not rule out the influence of psychological factors, but fortunately this situation does not occur for a long time, Ms. He resolutely out of the confines of feudal thinking, will be difficult for others to talk about the “privacy,” boldly to the regular institution Ms. He decided to step out of the confines of her feudal mindset, and boldly sought the advice of a medical expert at a formal institution for “privacy” that was difficult for others to discuss. In this way, through the medical experts systematic drug treatment and behavioral therapy, with the husband and wife’s regulation, it is entirely possible to re-achieve the other side of sexual happiness. For sex, we should establish and accept the view that sexual activity is a natural process, and perfect sex requires the devotion of both the mind and the body. Therefore, sexual activity does not only lie in the success of each penile erection and vaginal penetration, but should pay more attention to the couple’s inner feelings, the overall coordination and harmony of the sexual activity process; however, but the physical state, work pressure, emotional fluctuations, environmental factors, etc., may be in some specific time and some special places, affecting the quality of sexual life. So the sexual activity between husband and wife is not every time is perfect and impeccable, and not every sex can make both husband and wife enjoy the sexual climax. In the process of sex, the psychological factors are very important, only couples are relaxed and natural and wholeheartedly committed, in order to fully enjoy sexual happiness. In the clinical diagnosis and treatment work, we see too many men, due to a variety of worries, such as worrying about the size of the reproductive organs, the length of penile erection time, their own male physical characteristics and the ability to let the woman to accept and satisfy, etc., so that they can not enjoy the pleasure of sex, on the contrary, too much worry sometimes even lead to impotence and premature ejaculation, so that sexual intercourse can not be carried out. For this situation, the wife should be such as to take what measures: 1, the first is to seek the help of professionals in formal institutions: many men are embarrassed to go to the hospital, as a wife should remind and urge her husband to go to the formal medical institutions, and as far as possible, accompanied by a doctor. 2, to help the husband build confidence: for the modern society in a strong work and mental pressure on the husband, the spouse should be more supportive and encouraging of the husband, even if the sexual failure, do not blame each other, but should be given more relief, to dilute the feeling of failure and memory. 3, more communication between husband and wife: usually more communication, pay attention to the emotional and physical state of both sides, pay attention to the quality of sex, in the best state of both sex. 4, the use of sex life skills: through the study of sexual health skills, change the daily mode of sex, to the usual sexual activities to create surprise and novelty. 5, the creation of the sex environment: create a warm and romantic sex environment, the two sides more recall the good times of the honeymoon; double holiday or vacation can go out on vacation, enjoy the complete world of two people.