The specialist told her that if her disease developed, she would suffer from endocrine disorders, a decrease in estrogen in the body, which would affect the pituitary gland, change the shape of the person, change the appearance of the face, and finally die prematurely due to hypertension and arteriosclerosis. The solution can only be to try to make her pregnant, so that the body has a readjustment, but the quality of the child is difficult to guarantee, the mother is only a big relief, but it is impossible to be a very normal woman, menopause will produce a series of problems, in short, this life is not good. She never thought things would be so serious, and couldn’t help but feel anxious. I had to warn them that their bodies would have all kinds of problems if they did not listen to my advice and refused to sweat in the air-conditioned rooms on the “three days of the year”, or to eat cold drinks during their periods. My mother told me that if a woman’s blood is not sick, everything is fine, but the blood is sick, it will lead to a series of problems. So she always obeyed the admonition to women to take care of their daughters. When a girl had a blood disease, the mother always blamed the mother for being incompetent, how could she get wet during her period? How can you be cool during labor? …… When I tried my best to take care of my daughter, she didn’t know how to take care of herself, and she said with a strong voice that everyone does this, and foreigners even more so. This made me anxious, how can I let her know the difference between the physique of Easterners and Westerners, that the Western way of life also causes them a series of artificial problems, that she can choose a lifestyle that is good for her physical and mental health, and that she can learn to protect herself? This made me think once again of traditional Chinese culture and traditional medicine – Chinese medicine. I don’t want to argue with young people, I don’t want to use theories as weapons to argue with them, I can agree with all of Muzimei’s ideas, but look at Muzimei as a person, in her twenties, her face is green and yellow, uneven, and today’s cosmetic surgery can’t change her gaunt face. It is not necessary to check her pulse to conclude that she has a serious disorder of yin and yang and is incurable, because it is not feasible to support her lifestyle with drugs without changing her lifestyle and her philosophy of life. I have watched too many young people follow a path of life that is against nature and against the laws of the body. I don’t know how to protect my daughter, not to mention that she doesn’t really understand and takes my words for granted, or even if she listens to some of them, what happens after I die? Will she be able to take care of herself? This makes me think of Chinese medicine once again. Many Western doctors do not know how to maintain health, because Western medicine is science and technology, not a philosophy of life, science and technology does not necessarily lead to a “scientific” way of life, and does not necessarily have a relationship with the content of the person, the inner content, many experts, professors believe in cults to illustrate this point. Chinese medicine is the “Way”, its philosophy can cure the floating, hyperactive, anxiety …… If I can commit my daughter to the cause of Chinese medicine, I can die in peace. TCM can first provide my daughter with a value of life that is good for her body and mind, and secondly, it can give her the skills to establish her life and save the world and give her a career that she can rely on for the rest of her life. As I began to think about my daughter’s future, I became more and more aware of my mother’s way of life. When I think about it, my mother loved her career as a TCM practitioner, and in order to truly treat people like a TCM practitioner, she left the big hospitals and opened her own small clinic. She was not greedy for money, and her prescriptions were true scriptures, with only a few medicines, often for 12 cents. When I packaged medicine for patients, they always said, “Give more, right? Look at this medicine you gave, the small spoon is like an ear spoon, not enough to spill it.” Or they would say, “Give two more packs, the Chinese medicine is slow, take more.” One day my mother saw me grinding calcium tablets and asked me what I was doing. I said I wanted to mix it into the medicine to increase the amount of medicine, so that they would not say that they had given less medicine. The actual fact is that the actual amount of time to take the medicine is not the key to the effectiveness of Chinese medicine. Even if the patient who is willing to take more medicine? Some of the children who are not good at feeding medicine, the mother rolled a small paper tube filled with some medicine, to the child’s mouth gently blow, stained the mouth, the child can not even vomit, just a little medicine, you can see the effect. The mother’s life is self-contained and happy. Sometimes I see my mother feel the pulse of a woman, a very intoxicated look, a few times she pulled me to let me feel the pulse: “You feel, how happy, how festive, like the river in spring, this is a happy pulse ah.” I feel, only to feel this person does not have heart disease, touch can not feel the mother felt the sound of spring garden dance music. The mother also inspired: “also very masculine, a boy ……” people are happy to hear: “pregnant, or a boy?” The mother touches the happy pulse, does not easily say male and female, is in order to let me experience before saying, and I am in order not to spoil the mother to touch. My mother is calm and does not blame the problem, does this come from her profession? When I was young, I thought that my mother’s mentality was the natural mentality of all people of age, but now I see that more and more women, the older they get, the crazier they get, either paranoid or depressed, and it’s hard to find a calm, peaceful, forgiving one like my mother, which is why I know that people don’t naturally grow old with kindness and wisdom, which is why I found the preciousness of my mother’s mentality. I want more and more to give my daughter something to fall back on like my mother did. I recited in front of my daughter that I regretted not studying Chinese medicine. When my daughter saw me deny myself, she was very happy: “Yes, look at you, you’ve achieved nothing, you’re busy all day, you don’t have a serious job, can those things you do be considered a career? Once you retire, you’ll have nothing to do like everyone else, will you play mahjong or go dancing?” I sighed and said, “If I had studied Chinese medicine, I would have been better than my mother, and there is no retirement in Chinese medicine? The older you get, the more valuable it is, and only at my age do you start sprinting ……” My daughter said, “If I were to do Chinese medicine, I would be better than any of you, I would use Xuan paper printed with vertical paths, write prescriptions in running script, and set up threadbare books in my study… …” My daughter fell for my trap. Daughter’s thinking is typical of women, her first thought is that Chinese medicine can unite her artistic hobbies, qin, chess, calligraphy, painting, ancient study, with the ancient Chinese medical art that can be done until old age, she thought about it and said, “Hey, I really can’t think of any other profession so suitable for me.” I am both relieved and anxious that my daughter has embarked on this path. The relief is that my daughter has become more calm after studying TCM, and is clearly different from the modern girls who are so eager to make a profit and chase after the world. In contrast her behavior began to look “old school”, winter wear cotton, summer wear single, sunrise and do, sunset and rest ……. Although she was not yet a doctor, the physical and mental problems of her family and friends began to focus on her, asking her for explanations and solutions, which led her to increase the intensity and breadth of her studies. In addition to her regular coursework, she studied venereal disease, psychology, and acupuncture, and received the appropriate certifications, respectively. She also began to worry about the physical and mental damage caused by the lifestyle of today’s youth. My anxiety for my daughter is that TCM is facing serious challenges in this day and age, and it is difficult to make a breakthrough and make a difference. Instead of standing with her peers, my daughter often stands in opposition to them, and she has become the “minority” and the “other”. However, her daughter’s position became stronger and stronger, and she began to promote among young people the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases and the Chinese medical concept of life, and to worry about the frequent pregnancies and miscarriages among girls. She was against uncontrolled smoking, drinking and crazy nightlife. My daughter no longer pursues fashion, enjoyment and wealth like her peers …… she can resist the temptation of a paper-drunk life to her, she naturally explores the origins of Chinese culture, for which I am extremely grateful to Chinese medicine, where in today’s world can I find such things that can calm my daughter down while being very connotative? It took me a lifetime of detours to realize the simple truth that Chinese medicine and Western medicine are two ways of thinking and completely different medicines, and my daughter realized it all at once. She reassured me that because of the special nature of my time, the detour I took was a tuition fee paid by TCM to the times, and that without the detour I took, she would not have been able to choose decisively. My daughter is studying clinical Chinese and Western medicine, which is still a dangerous path that has not been explored. But this search is necessary, my daughter is in this era is also impossible to put aside Western medicine to talk about Chinese medicine. How to combine Chinese and Western medicine? The task before the young people of my daughter’s generation is still very difficult. My mother does not reject Western medicine. Some TCM doctors oppose the use of Western medicine for their patients, but my mother does not oppose it, one reason is that Western medicine sometimes has an intervention effect on the disease that Chinese herbal medicine cannot achieve. My mother did not consider this intervention as a purely negative effect. When she sees a patient, she takes the effect of western medicine into account as a cause of the disease, and thinks about how to find a high point, a fulcrum, to achieve the effect of four pairs of jin. When it comes to difficult and complicated diseases, my mother also uses Western medicine to change the shape of a condition that is difficult to start, so as to find the entry point. The combination of Western medicine to Chinese medicine can only use technology, not theory, which is ultimately not Chinese medicine. And is it possible for Chinese medicine to accommodate Western medicine with less difficulty? My daughter said, “No, there is a problem of shielding in thinking here. Once a TCM practitioner sees a tumor on a film, as Western medicine does, the vision is always affected by the disease, and it is very difficult to convert this thinking to TCM to do holistic thinking. This is a valid point, but not an absolute one.